Gf and jealousy

[oakraiderz2]

My girl gets jealous over the dumbest things like just when girls talk to me. And if she doesnt like the girl then she gets even more jealous. Today i went to her softball game and this girl she hates started talking to me. I was talkin to my girl on the phone and she said when she saw her talking to me she was like...what!?! whats she doing talking to him. And today i didnt go to school and was like...whatd u do today?? Oh wait lemme guess...hang out with shania(the girl she doesnt like). WHich IMO was cold and uncalled for. SHe said other shyt like that too. So i dont know what i should do. Its kinda annoying and i wish shed get more confidence. What should i do?

 

[drixsa]

well you know your doin somewhat of a good job if its comin to this right...?

i say take a day off or so and let things simmer down

if it comes up again call her out on it

and just say (maybe even indirectly) that its a real turn off when a girl doesnt trust me or gets jealous over the slightest thing

i realize that no one is perfect but she isnt coming off as the type that has trust and respect for you

time to think why are you in a relationship...?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by drixsa
well you know your doin somewhat of a good job if its comin to this right...?

i say take a day off or so and let things simmer down

if it comes up again call her out on it

and just say (maybe even indirectly) that its a real turn off when a girl doesnt trust me or gets jealous over the slightest thing

i realize that no one is perfect but she isnt coming off as the type that has trust and respect for you

time to think why are you in a relationship...?

I know that if i wasnt as patient as i was then i wouldnt put up with any of it. Weve been together for four months so its hard just to break up with her. But its getting harder and harder to put up with her lack of confidence and insecurities. During october theres a time when i wont see her for two weeks, which is bad because theres a GOOD chance that ill stop liking her which i dont really understand. She knows that i dont like when she pulls that shyt because my voice tone changes. I dont know what i should do, before i could see us together until may....but now its not looking as good. And if i break up with her i know shell get with some other guy and have sex with him in a few days...like she used to do before me....the best thing that ever happened to her. What can i do?

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
I know that if i wasnt as patient as i was then i wouldnt put up with any of it. Weve been together for four months so its hard just to break up with her. But its getting harder and harder to put up with her lack of confidence and insecurities. During october theres a time when i wont see her for two weeks, which is bad because theres a GOOD chance that ill stop liking her which i dont really understand. She knows that i dont like when she pulls that shyt because my voice tone changes. I dont know what i should do, before i could see us together until may....but now its not looking as good. And if i break up with her i know shell get with some other guy and have sex with him in a few days...like she used to do before me....the best thing that ever happened to her. What can i do?

listen to the way you are talking about her

"shed go and fvck some guys within days if she wasnt with me"

im sorry but why do you want this girl around

is this the same one from your car over the summer?

imean yea it is nice to imagine you 2 going to prom or whatever BS you are puttin up, but listen to yourself, does she really have all this worth?

you need to find more reasons why you should be with this girl...or shouldn't be with her

 

[Sammo]

Couldnt agree more Drix..

 

[rich_uk]

you guys remember my hb 10 (reduced to 9.5) on looks anyway personality included shes a -10. shes a f*cking pyscho, we arent together, havent been on a date but shes saying she really likes me but doesnt want a relationship so doesnt want to mess me around.

then she heard i was going swimming with some female friends of mine and got outraged, she started crying and saying she couldnt believe i could do that to her. yet she flirts sh*tloads with other guys.

ive had enough of that **** so im hardly tlaking to her now, but she wants me more!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

 

[Superman X]

You are taking this way too seriously.

This is nothing but a sh!t test.

Laugh at her. Make fun of her. Tell her that if she gets mad when you talk to another girl, imagine how mad she's going to get when she sees you with your harem. 99% chance you will pass her sh!t test and end it, and the other 1% she's so psycho that you don't want to bother anyway.