"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GF and I clashed today on the road... she stopped the car and got out.

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...I got in the driver's seat and drove off.

She calls me up seconds later...

"What?!"

"Are you REALLY driving off and leaving me here?"

"...YOU got out and started walking!"

"I'm in heels, and I'm gonna twist my ankle walking on these rocks!"

"Do you want me to come back and get you?"

"...yes."

:)

Picked her back up, we went and got me some new Adidas, and she flashed me her tits in the store. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Now THAT, gentlemen, is how you pass a sh!t test.
 
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BongDuy said:
wait, lol.... go into more detail about the tits.


no really, how did it go from point A to point B? lol this sounds like good news though?
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I believe she gave me the "I'm going to act like an insane ***** and see if he caves like a *****" test.

Passed.

How I got her to flash those tits was easy. She wanted me to make up my mind on the type of shoes I wanted, and I just looked her in the eyes and said "Show me yo titties..." and she did... not like I haven't had them up close and personal.
 
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OK nice outcome, but a few questions. Who's car was it? Hers or yours? If it was yours while were you letting her drive it, and if it ws hers, she could've just as easily called the cops instead of you and reported her car stolen. Also, what race is your GF, white? I can't speak for how black women are, but with white women us white guys just can't get away with the same things or get the same response that black guys get with them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If as a white male you can't get away with the stuff blacks can with white girls, maybe it's time you went for some latin ho with a cinnamon tan:D
 
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My question is, even after all that mess yesterday.. I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?
 
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What happened that she felt she had to get out of the car to begin with?
 
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What happened that she felt she had to get out of the car to begin with?
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Most guys here would probably be quick to scream "NEXT THAT B1TCH HO HE HA HOO HEEEE!!!!11" but not me.

LadiesMan, if you are anything like me, I know for a fact I have the *******dness inside me to drive people crazy and WANT to get out of the car. So you might want to remember that.
 
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... I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?
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The best way is to abandon your AFC thinking behind the question by understanding that it is NOT your job as a man to make her 'unpissed' .
Let her stay "pissed"...

Most of us make this mistake over and over,,... when our women are angry we habitually find ways to sooth her feelings and, in so doing, so we 'train' them expect that we will "do something nice" for them when they are upset.

If she acted so badly that you were ready to drive away, then she deserves to stay with her feelings.
Punishment is SUPPOSED to be painful otherwise it does not send the intended message and fails in its purpose.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I did that once. I just got a speeding ticket, and was feeling down and depressed (I have lots of them) and she was making fun of me, not realizing (even after repeated warnings) that she was pushing a HUGE button. After 30 seconds of screaming at each other I pulled over and told her to get the f... out. I figured she would call for me to come back, but she didn't. She did call a week later and apologized.
 
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What have we learned? We learned Chris Brown was a dumbass, he shoulda just made her walk for a while to put her in place. Now look at the shmuck.

Good on ya LadiesMan!
 
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TheLadiesMan said:
My question is, even after all that mess yesterday.. I believe in the back of her mind, she's still pissed that I would leave her on the road.

What's the best way to handle this situation?
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Brush it off as nothing. What can you do? She wants to throw a tantrum and pull stuff like that then she should suffer the consequences. bet she wont pull that stunt no more.:D
 
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