"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GF and I broke up for a week, and GF kissed a another guy..

Abcd

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Don't worry about it - worse things have happened. I've made out with a friend like this after a few drinks, when she was still dating her long-distance bf, and it really meant nothing other than that we'd both had a few too many drinks and we are animal beings. She's now engaged to him and they will live happily ever after. And, whenever I see him with her (rarely), I feel bad myself for throwing that little wrench in the works, even though I'm not sure if she ever told him - so if you see the guy, just be mature about it and know that you got the girl, and he's the chump not you.

The bigger question you're going to have to resolve is, why are you dating a girl you broke up with. But that one will resolve itself...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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