"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sagexx

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Ive been wondering since im new to this stuff( was an afc and prob still is). How do u approach Asian girls who just feel disgusted at the sight of u trying to get their number. them virgin shy types are what i am talking about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is from my own experience watching my sarge buddie get numbers from asian girls in a college campus

1. Get up in their space: If you see one sitting down at a table you go and sit right next to her. You need to shock them. Don't be asking for advice, opinion or any of these openers. You need to go right up to them and chat them up like if you know them already.
2. Start chatting her up right away: They are going to be a little shocked by you which is good. The shock is going to be a positive one as long as you start chatting her up right away and not let it get silent. You need to keep a constant stream of chatter coming out of your mouth.
3. Start asking her about stuff: Start having a conversation, do light kino.
4. After you talked to her for about 3 or 4 mins or so tell her you gotta go see your friend, hand her your phone, tell her you'll give her a call so maybe you could meet and do something.

My buddy is really not into theory. He even refused to have any game plans other than having lots of confidence and just sitting right next to them. He would just go up to asian girls (all he did) and just get up in their space and start chatting them up. No game plan, no set up lines, he would just chat about whatever he felt.

Sometimes he would get 4 numbers a night. He proved that you don't need fancy lines, game plans etc. Shocking girls with your confidence in getting in their space and chatting them up is probably the whole secret.
 

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wow.... im guessing it will take a lot of courage and pretty much experience to do this. this will be typically hard as i dont even know what to chat about for 5 minutes.
 

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sagexx said:
wow.... im guessing it will take a lot of courage and pretty much experience to do this. this will be typically hard as i dont even know what to chat about for 5 minutes.
His style is very direct when it comes to first engaging the girl. He sometimes would grab a chair from another table and sit next to the girl. I can't stress enough how shock value is so important. Rarely if ever in their life did these nice virgin asian girls have a guy approach them in such a way. The moment you get up in their space like this all kinds of things are going through their head. Probably the most important thing of all is that you are showing them you are extremely confident and manly which all women appreciate.

It doesn't have to be 5 minutes. You can stop the conversation after you think it has hit a high point (shes laughing a lot, smiling a lot) and you are pretty sure you can get the number and leave her wanting more before you screw up. Just don't stay and chat with her for a minute and think you are going to get a #. You need to have a conversation.

You might get different advice but just be warned this is coming from experience in watching the action happen from just a few feet away. This aggressive style works.
 
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