Getting women to think you're surrounded by women

[skinnyguy]

I think this tactic works better than PUA tactics. Here's why.

Women simply want what they can't get, and they do what other people do to jump in on the bandwagon. They join Instagram cause everyone else is doing it…they buy a certain purse because everyone else is buying it….essentially women are followers and if they think something is cool they will want to hop in on it.

Now, I'm a below average looking guy. But using this tactics has worked wonders for me. How do you guys give off the vibe that you have women all around you?

If you're already attractive and jacked, please disregard this post.

 

[TheSlasher]

One girl that I made out with told me that I give off the vibe that I have a lot of experience with women. It's quite true to some degree, but I don't know how she came to say that (I asked her but I forgot what she said, because you know, women give answers to stuff like that which are quite vague for us). So yeah, I'm also interested in knowing how other guys do it. How about you, skinnyguy, how do you do it?

Also, how do we balance this out? Because as far I know, women have keen sense for "baiting for attention" and they can sense it from a mile away. And that could backfire your tactic, right? So how do we do this very, very subtly (in case that's what you have to do)?

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I think this tactic works better than PUA tactics. Here's why.

Women simply want what they can't get, and they do what other people do to jump in on the bandwagon. They join Instagram cause everyone else is doing it…they buy a certain purse because everyone else is buying it….essentially women are followers and if they think something is cool they will want to hop in on it.

Now, I'm a below average looking guy. But using this tactics has worked wonders for me. How do you guys give off the vibe that you have women all around you?

If you're already attractive and jacked, please disregard this post.

Women have a pre-selection mentality, that's the long and short of it

 

[zekko]

One girl that I made out with told me that I give off the vibe that I have a lot of experience with women.

It's true that the smoother you are, and the more confident you are, the more it gives the impression that you are comfortable around women and have had plenty of experience with them. And apparently they like this sort of thing, they will almost always prefer this over a guy who is hesitant and stumbling, and gives off the impression that he hasn't been able to get a girl. It's part of women wanting a man rather than a boy, at least once they hit a certain age.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

The easiest way to get her to think you're surrounded by women... is to be surrounded by women. I purposefully have attractive female friends that I've never tried to hook up with just so new girls will (a) know that I hang around attractive women (thus making them also feel like I consider them attractive without having to say it), and (b) know that I'm a guy women like to be around. From there, I don't have to explicitly say I'm good with women - they'll make that impression for themselves.

The other way to give this appearance is by not being so quick to jump when they make a request to spend time with you. There was a girl I wanted to date one time that was being wishy-washy about dating me, yet wanted to be my friend. Knowing this, I decided to make date plans with another girl for a Thursday night. Thursday afternoon rolls around and the first girl asks me if I wanted to hang out that night, to which I simply replied "Ooh, I can't, I've already made plans - but we can do something later this weekend." Didn't even tell her what the plans were, but it made her feel some type of way...

Two weeks later as we're making out on my couch, she tells me that when I wasn't able to hang out with her, it made her jealous and had her wondering (a) if I was spending time with another girl; and (b) if she actually wanted to be with me as MORE than just a friend since she noticed her reaction made her realize how much she enjoyed being around me.

Works like a charm, man, works like a charm

 

[Mr Wright]

I've found that some girls are put off by the 'player vibe' though because they don't want to become a statistic. Which is why I advocate getting a lot experience because you'll be able to read these situations a lot better and know when it's the right time to give off the experienced vibe and the wrong time. Confidence is universally attractive but you can express confidence in different ways. You're always going to treat a party girl differently to a girl you meet in a library.

With your social circle, pre-selection is already done with you if you hang out with hot girls, you literally need to be able to carry on a conversation and escalate and you're fine. In case this isn't explicitly obvious hang around hot girls and you barely need any actual game.

 

[El Payaso]

Personally, my own advice is to be confident. You don't need to actually surround yourself with women to give yourself confidence. Let your confidence come from other sources besides women like your work or education or anything else. Depending on women to give you confidence is a sure fire way to depression.

But anyway, like Harry said too, actually surround yourself with women. You can fake it but unless you have incredibly strong self resistance and acting chops, she will smell it on you.

When you actually surround yourself with women, you end up with options. When girl 1 flakes, you have girl 2 at your beck and call ready to go out with you. When your girlfriend misbehaves, you're not afraid to call her out on it or dump her on the spot because you know that you can go out and get a girl in the blink of an eye.