She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ok pimp daddy, but look at it this way... lets say she is PRE-SELECTED by other man too. then your in trouble aren't you...Daddy The Pimp said:
very funny:yes: ....Sandow said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wish, oh boy, do I wish.SmoothTalker said:
Exactly.... Womens emotions are what allow them to be controlled.. there is a "vail" that goes over a womans eyes when she loves you... She shuts of all rational thought and judgment and will often follow blindly... But once the vail is liften she is gone you cannot control it and you cannot get it back... but you can make sure it stays....Daddy The Pimp said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
not that it matters but I have known guys that manage to get chicks to pay for alot of things for them. Once had a buddy in Henley that pretty much lived off his victims for like a month and then spent his personal income on other important things. but he was a much more heartless man then me. This kind of thing is impossible for most men to achieve.
correction: PUA's can't do it. Pimps can.Kalel21 said: