Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ok pimp daddy, but look at it this way... lets say she is PRE-SELECTED by other man too. then your in trouble aren't you...Daddy The Pimp said:
very funny:yes: ....Sandow said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I wish, oh boy, do I wish.SmoothTalker said:
Exactly.... Womens emotions are what allow them to be controlled.. there is a "vail" that goes over a womans eyes when she loves you... She shuts of all rational thought and judgment and will often follow blindly... But once the vail is liften she is gone you cannot control it and you cannot get it back... but you can make sure it stays....Daddy The Pimp said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
not that it matters but I have known guys that manage to get chicks to pay for alot of things for them. Once had a buddy in Henley that pretty much lived off his victims for like a month and then spent his personal income on other important things. but he was a much more heartless man then me. This kind of thing is impossible for most men to achieve.
correction: PUA's can't do it. Pimps can.Kalel21 said: