Getting women teaches you just as much about other men than it does women. (long post)

[Jesse Pinkman]

Lately, I have not been feeling 100% with my health but this past weekend, a string of events transpired. As you all know, France played England in the WC which is a huge game. The morning of, I watched Portugal vs. Morocco and put up an IG story. I was watching it on a floor of my apartment which is all TVs, pool tables, as well as a gym. It is one of those modern luxury apartments and since it is in a boring area of Miami, I got a good price on it.

As soon as I put up the story, one of my wings who I am good friends with and has been reliable for me DMs me and then after him, two other girls I had IG closed while daygaming also DM me. They all ask about the upcoming game and if I will be watching it. Wing tells me he is bringing girls he knows as well girls his sister is friends with if I am cool having him over. I also let the two other girls know they can come and they are down, one of the girls is French. Girls ask if they can bring their friends and they do.

So afternoon rolls around and French girl comes first, bringing two of her friends. One is this plain average looking Filipina and another is this Ukrainian dime piece who was even hotter than Frenchie. The other girl does not come but I am lucky, was not thinking straight and was going to put two girls I daygamed in the same room lol. We are chilling and 30 min later, wing rolls in with his sister, one of the girls he daygamed and got with, and the friends of his sister. Two of his sister's friends are hot, his sister is not bad herself, and the girl he daygamed is just gorgeous!

We watch the game on one end, I had gone to the reception desk and reserved that TV for us. On the other end are these four guys. I see them around in the gym all the time but they barely work out. The most stereotypical bros of all in the building, one of them even having ruined a date for me that I had brought back to my apartment a while back. I am chilling with the French girl and the Ukrainian but then one of the Latinas and my wing's sister chat with me.

"That guy keeps staring at us, wtf," says the Filipina friend.

Come to find, one of the guys on the other side keeps staring in our direction. We ignore it and enjoy the game. My wing's close friend, this tall and buff black dude, also joins us minutes before France had scored their first goal. Dude seems chill and one of the Latinas who is friends with the wing's sister seems to know him well.

Then, after that we start to notice how it is getting irritatingly loud on the other end of the room. Like not even the "cheer for a sports team" type of hooligan loud but the more you have to try to be a nuisance loud. One of the guys screams like a monkey on the other side of the room and we wonder if these guys are on crack. We ignore it as the black dude and my wing look at me like WTF is going on.

My wing and I know what's up and he calls it out when talking to me. Leans in and whispers saying "I bet they come to this side soon and try to get attention". I whisper to him "yeah we gotta be careful, they are prone to starting sh*t, the pale dark-haired one ruined my date many weeks ago". Wing reminds me that I told him about that.

Halftime rolls around and then one of the Latinas who is with Wing's sister goes to use the restroom. She comes back and is trying to enter but one of the guys runs to the door and opens it for her. Like the dude was LOUD and stomping when he ran. We look over and he opens it when she is trying to get back in the room we are in and smiles at her as his friends are looking. She quickly walks over to us with an afraid look on her face as one of his friends yells "mamacita!". My Wing's sister as well as the two Latinas did not like that very much.

I am sitting down watching the halftime as the black dude seems a bit pissed over what has happened. We ignore it but then one of the guys, the same freaking dude who ruined my dates weeks ago, comes over to our end under the guise of wanting to see the outdoors view. The match starts again but then I hear the dude, who was drunk with his friends, tell me "oh yeah you're that guy who brought that girl to the rooftop, how did that go bro?". I ignore him and talk to the French and Ukrainian girl which I had been doing.

The girls I am with make it clear that he is demanding my attention. With amused mastery I look at him, smile (it was clearly fake), and say "went good man, thanks, we are discussing something important so let me get back to you in a bit!". Go back to talking to the girls I am with but then one of dude's friends comes over and starts shouting "it's called soccer!", the dumb chant Americans do about soccer. The girls are clearly annoyed and then other dude says to me "hey man how do you all know each other?".

I look to him and say "these are my brothers and sisters" which has the girls laughing. The dude takes it literally and says "but you all do not even look alike". Wing's sister is annoyed and says "we are actually trying to watch the game" but the other guy comes over and says "but soccer is ghay". Filipina who is with us says "then go watch something else on your TV dude".

I turn to the guy who started chatting with us and tell him "hey man, we are really just trying to watch the game, do you and your friends mind?". Guy looks at his annoying friend and tells him to stop but then turns to me and says "hey bro, keep pounding that snatch". Dude has seen me run game before in the neighborhood too.......phuk...French girl turns to me and asks how I know him. I tell her I keep running into him on the gym and he drinks a lot.

The game goes on and the girls cheer when England scores, well all of them except for French girl and Ukrainian. As soon as they do, the guys are on the other end yelling "soccer's ghay soccer's ghay!". One of the dudes is so drunk that he falls over on one of the glass tables head first and his friends yell worrying. The girls with us laugh.

However, as they are worried about their friends, I hear one of the guys saying "he is probably paying those girls to hang out with him bro they look like escorts!". Then another guy says "yeah the soccer b1tch looks like she does gangbangs every night bro". They were really drunk and my wing and black dude was livid but trying to hold it in.

Game ends and Wing tells me he has a hookup in Wynnwood. I am not in the best health but I say why not. We had a great rest of the afternoon and I could have banged if I wanted to but my sex drive has tanked since coming back from NYC. French girl and I did make out and it was a blast overall. I didn't want to take her home since I had been drained but it was a fun time. Ukrainian girl mingled well with the black dude and I was spending fun time with Frenchie.

Wing did bang and so did the black dude who he says had a threesome with the Ukrainian girl and one of the Latinas. French girl had a busy night but I regret not capitalizing, could not have since my health is somewhat compromised.

Lesson learned.

The dude who walked over in my direction has tried to pretend to be buddy buddy with me whenever I am around girls. When I tried to make small talk with him many months ago, he gave me a snarky response and acted snobby. I ignored him from then on out but as soon as he sees me with girls, he tries to approach and pretend like he somehow knows me or is my friend.

I have seen it happen so much where dudes will try to act buddy buddy with you or pretend like they know you as soon as they see you with girls.

Getting better with women from where I used to be has taught me more about men than it has women.

 

[Gamisch]

Lately, I have not been feeling 100% with my health but this past weekend, a string of events transpired. As you all know, France played England in the WC which is a huge game. The morning of, I watched Portugal vs. Morocco and put up an IG story. I was watching it on a floor of my apartment which is all TVs, pool tables, as well as a gym. It is one of those modern luxury apartments and since it is in a boring area of Miami, I got a good price on it.

As soon as I put up the story, one of my wings who I am good friends with and has been reliable for me DMs me and then after him, two other girls I had IG closed while daygaming also DM me. They all ask about the upcoming game and if I will be watching it. Wing tells me he is bringing girls he knows as well girls his sister is friends with if I am cool having him over. I also let the two other girls know they can come and they are down, one of the girls is French. Girls ask if they can bring their friends and they do.

So afternoon rolls around and French girl comes first, bringing two of her friends. One is this plain average looking Filipina and another is this Ukrainian dime piece who was even hotter than Frenchie. The other girl does not come but I am lucky, was not thinking straight and was going to put two girls I daygamed in the same room lol. We are chilling and 30 min later, wing rolls in with his sister, one of the girls he daygamed and got with, and the friends of his sister. Two of his sister's friends are hot, his sister is not bad herself, and the girl he daygamed is just gorgeous!

We watch the game on one end, I had gone to the reception desk and reserved that TV for us. On the other end are these four guys. I see them around in the gym all the time but they barely work out. The most stereotypical bros of all in the building, one of them even having ruined a date for me that I had brought back to my apartment a while back. I am chilling with the French girl and the Ukrainian but then one of the Latinas and my wing's sister chat with me.

"That guy keeps staring at us, wtf," says the Filipina friend.

Come to find, one of the guys on the other side keeps staring in our direction. We ignore it and enjoy the game. My wing's close friend, this tall and buff black dude, also joins us minutes before France had scored their first goal. Dude seems chill and one of the Latinas who is friends with the wing's sister seems to know him well.

Then, after that we start to notice how it is getting irritatingly loud on the other end of the room. Like not even the "cheer for a sports team" type of hooligan loud but the more you have to try to be a nuisance loud. One of the guys screams like a monkey on the other side of the room and we wonder if these guys are on crack. We ignore it as the black dude and my wing look at me like WTF is going on.

My wing and I know what's up and he calls it out when talking to me. Leans in and whispers saying "I bet they come to this side soon and try to get attention". I whisper to him "yeah we gotta be careful, they are prone to starting sh*t, the pale dark-haired one ruined my date many weeks ago". Wing reminds me that I told him about that.

Halftime rolls around and then one of the Latinas who is with Wing's sister goes to use the restroom. She comes back and is trying to enter but one of the guys runs to the door and opens it for her. Like the dude was LOUD and stomping when he ran. We look over and he opens it when she is trying to get back in the room we are in and smiles at her as his friends are looking. She quickly walks over to us with an afraid look on her face as one of his friends yells "mamacita!". My Wing's sister as well as the two Latinas did not like that very much.

I am sitting down watching the halftime as the black dude seems a bit pissed over what has happened. We ignore it but then one of the guys, the same freaking dude who ruined my dates weeks ago, comes over to our end under the guise of wanting to see the outdoors view. The match starts again but then I hear the dude, who was drunk with his friends, tell me "oh yeah you're that guy who brought that girl to the rooftop, how did that go bro?". I ignore him and talk to the French and Ukrainian girl which I had been doing.

The girls I am with make it clear that he is demanding my attention. With amused mastery I look at him, smile (it was clearly fake), and say "went good man, thanks, we are discussing something important so let me get back to you in a bit!". Go back to talking to the girls I am with but then one of dude's friends comes over and starts shouting "it's called soccer!", the dumb chant Americans do about soccer. The girls are clearly annoyed and then other dude says to me "hey man how do you all know each other?".

I look to him and say "these are my brothers and sisters" which has the girls laughing. The dude takes it literally and says "but you all do not even look alike". Wing's sister is annoyed and says "we are actually trying to watch the game" but the other guy comes over and says "but soccer is ghay". Filipina who is with us says "then go watch something else on your TV dude".

I turn to the guy who started chatting with us and tell him "hey man, we are really just trying to watch the game, do you and your friends mind?". Guy looks at his annoying friend and tells him to stop but then turns to me and says "hey bro, keep pounding that snatch". Dude has seen me run game before in the neighborhood too.......phuk...French girl turns to me and asks how I know him. I tell her I keep running into him on the gym and he drinks a lot.

The game goes on and the girls cheer when England scores, well all of them except for French girl and Ukrainian. As soon as they do, the guys are on the other end yelling "soccer's ghay soccer's ghay!". One of the dudes is so drunk that he falls over on one of the glass tables head first and his friends yell worrying. The girls with us laugh.

However, as they are worried about their friends, I hear one of the guys saying "he is probably paying those girls to hang out with him bro they look like escorts!". Then another guy says "yeah the soccer b1tch looks like she does gangbangs every night bro". They were really drunk and my wing and black dude was livid but trying to hold it in.

Game ends and Wing tells me he has a hookup in Wynnwood. I am not in the best health but I say why not. We had a great rest of the afternoon and I could have banged if I wanted to but my sex drive has tanked since coming back from NYC. French girl and I did make out and it was a blast overall. I didn't want to take her home since I had been drained but it was a fun time. Ukrainian girl mingled well with the black dude and I was spending fun time with Frenchie.

Wing did bang and so did the black dude who he says had a threesome with the Ukrainian girl and one of the Latinas. French girl had a busy night but I regret not capitalizing, could not have since my health is somewhat compromised.

Lesson learned.

The dude who walked over in my direction has tried to pretend to be buddy buddy with me whenever I am around girls. When I tried to make small talk with him many months ago, he gave me a snarky response and acted snobby. I ignored him from then on out but as soon as he sees me with girls, he tries to approach and pretend like he somehow knows me or is my friend.

I have seen it happen so much where dudes will try to act buddy buddy with you or pretend like they know you as soon as they see you with girls.

Getting better with women from where I used to be has taught me more about men than it has women.

No surprises here really. No matter who you are and how long I've known a man. There are two ways to test ANY man on who he really is;.
- when it's about money
-when it's about women
And perhaps a third one.
- When a fight breaks out.

A single woman will change the whole atmosphere. 10 guys could be chilling in peace, when a woman enters the room suddenly they become something you've never ever seen in then before. That why alot a guys in that situation try to escalate the interaction with you towards a fight. Fastest way to assert dominance over you especiallywhen there's alcoholand perhaps drugs involved. When dealing with women you MUST somehow be confident and street smart enough to either deflect, or react to a threat. Be big and strong and know how to punch if needed( both mentally and physically if you know what I mean).

Best thing is to act like you dgaf. Let them rage . Dont show the women you are butthurt or irritated neither. When they push it too far you can excuse yourself, talk with dude 1 on 1 and tell him to back off a little.

I wouldn't even be surprised if some of the women actually likes the attention from those dudes. Just like we feel when we are with a woman at a party and suddenly this slvtty girl with a applebooty starts twerking.

As f up as it is, something like this is one of the disadvantages of sharing spaces with people. Perhaps best to make sure you isolate the group by hosting the get together in your own apartment, or in a place where somebody has the power and ability to make such dudes obey the house rules.

 

[Gamisch]

I would like to add to that such men do give you a great way to gain points with women by assessing the threat and being proactive. In other words, tell him to stfu NOW. But its risky because for all you know the other guy is willing to go all the way and role with you. In this situation it could end up in a huge fight, so maybe this wasn't the right place and time anyway.

Women think primal. When there's a threat and you know how to deal with it it WILL make them wet. Some men try to bank on this , good example is road rage. Stepping out of the car just to show the woman " you ain't scared". In this case the guys tried to go baboon and be loud AF, and it wouldn't be the first time a woman actually likes that. Women are vicious creatures.

Especially the woman who doesn't know you will respond to this. Also the woman who never seen that side of you. Like a light switch you go from dominant back to friendly if needed.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I will never forget the day about 8 guys showed up my high school over some beef, pretty sure it was a girl. The guy they wanted to see was a small soccer player. He looked them all straight up no backing yelled who wants to go first. Had been a pivotal moment in my life.

this post was really long and probably could come down 75%. My ADD kicked in and it don’t know if anyone stepped to you. Doesn’t sound like it. If you’re a lover and not a fighter, be a really good lover. No harm in calling cops.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Sh!t like this is why I hate people. My brother (who works at a fvcking arcade at 30 years old) amogged me when I had a girlfriend over one time. I was just disappointed tbh. Fvcking monkey brain

 

[2Rocky]

It's been about 30 years since I lived in a group situation where I couldn't control the surroundings . In a similar case, I warn my friends before they come : "Hey there's a guy here who is a real tool trying to get attention. Just ignore him. He's the landlord's nephew and he's got some problems."

I'm sure in your case there are some rules about common area behavior and decency and you could talk to whatever Administrative entity governs the space. I'm actually surprised there is not a security guard or someone with authority who didn't tell the tool to cool it.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

As f up as it is, something like this is one of the disadvantages of sharing spaces with people. Perhaps best to make sure you isolate the group by hosting the get together in your own apartment, or in a place where somebody has the power and ability to make such dudes obey the house rules.

As soon as I got good at cold approaching and pulling, I stopped wanting company. I used to want roommates since I was a loner that thought cold approach was useless but ever since I have gotten good at it, I can do without having any guys in general in my life for anything. TBH, other than having a few friends to handle the security side of things or guys to help me make money, I am starting to see most male friendships as useless since 95% of guys will turn on you if a woman is involved.