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Getting with Russian ladies

styleman

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I've always found Russian ladies perplexing... the reason being that they are far too approachable, you speak with them, and it seems as though they really like you - they really get involved with ANY topic of conversation. In most cases this would be a good thing, and one would get the vibe that the girl really likes you, so making the move would be easy, however in the case of Russian girls, I feel it makes it hard to make a move because it seems almost as if sex is not even on their mind - there so damn involved in the non-sexual topic of conversation your having.
The other thing that makes Russian women so hard to get with is that often I have made contact with them and they have not responded, weeks or even months later they will get back to me, with some excuse such as a deadline that they had. Problem here is that I often cannot even remember making contact with them, so its hard to know where to start off from with them!
Anyone have any experience or words of wisdom when it comes to Russian ladies?
 

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The_Reaper

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Bit of a blanket generalisation to say that all Russian women are like that, but I feel ya.

I knew a few, and have been with one before - and she was very friendly and as you describe.

Let's see. Money helps!

My experience with them is that many young Russian women are extremely deceptive and flattering, full of ulterior motives and ruthless quests to escape their economic destitution by latching onto a European or American and looking for quick marriage. Yeah, another generalisation, but a true one, in my experience.

But if you want to enjoy a fling with them, then just say "Devushka, oo tebya yest kryseeviya zhopa".
 

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The_Reaper said:
Bit of a blanket generalisation to say that all Russian women are like that, but I feel ya.

I knew a few, and have been with one before - and she was very friendly and as you describe.

Let's see. Money helps!

My experience with them is that many young Russian women are extremely deceptive and flattering, full of ulterior motives and ruthless quests to escape their economic destitution by latching onto a European or American and looking for quick marriage. Yeah, another generalisation, but a true one, in my experience.

But if you want to enjoy a fling with them, then just say "Devushka, oo tebya yest kryseeviya zhopa".
Well I'm talking about my experiences with three different Russian girls here.. but thanks for the advice!
 
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