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Getting tons of iois but she's still resisting

synergyxz

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Hello there!

Yesterday i was at this public party and i bumped into a girl that i briefly knew already. So we hanged out she was giving me TONS of IoIs... She was grabbing my ass, even buying me drinks, biting my neck, holding my hand, dancing with me etc. But yet she was very resistant to any tries that i made to kiss close her/do more sexual kino. It confused the sh*t out of me. Will probably meet her today again. Any ideas on what should i've done/should do?
 

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Hah, this is pretty funny. I do not know what to say very well. Except that she is just playing around with you. Her interest in you maybe only existed for that night. I bet she will not give you those 'Iois' next time you meet her. I am not the kind of person you should be taking advice from though :p.
 

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Did you resist her at all, or did you just go with the flow?
 

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Here's my guess. The basis for my guess comes from having a lot of female friends.

Guess: She's the fun/crazy type of girl. She knows how to party, but also knows how to control herself when she's in daytime - she's also, probably, a very mature person in the daytime too.

What to do: The worst thing you can do with these types of girls is be serious about what happened (if you had in the past, then game over). Enjoy her company, be just as playful if you ever party with her again (but don't be clingy - expect her to dance with a couple of other guys too). Try to relax when you are out with her in the public/daytime (it's hard to describe how to do this in an attractive way - we can have a discussion about this if you want to, but I don't want to explain it right now). She probably enjoys a guy who can just chill out when she's with him in the day.

What you should of done: Probably had been as crazy as she was: pull her in to sit on your lap as you talk to some girls, dirty danced with her, and kissed her neck... pretty much learn her moves and apply them back at her (I've accidently did that to a girl with a boyfriend.. she LOVED it; until her boyfriend showed up.. lol... can you say, dysfunctional relationship?)

Either way... If you have a girl doing that to you, I'd say you're pretty advanced here (or pretty good looking). You can figure this out by yourself, you don't need our advice.
 

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Simply get her alone and get her worked up. Get her a little tipsy and make out with her. Get really into it and get her turned on, kiss her neck, just get her super horny and turned on, then see if she still resists.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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