Dhoulmagus
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Is this bad
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Getting told I am quiet
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
As in an introvert?
It's not bad, it's just a personality type.There are advantages and disadvantages.
Some of the advantages:
- You think before you speak
- As you speak less, people will listen closely when you speak
- You are more mysterious, people have a hard time reading you
It's not bad, it's just a personality type.There are advantages and disadvantages.
Some of the advantages:
- You think before you speak
- As you speak less, people will listen closely when you speak
- You are more mysterious, people have a hard time reading you
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
No, most people are noisy. It's good to have the rare quiet ones around.
If you do feel like you need to venture out of your comfort zone, remember, less is more. Be friendly, use irony/sarcasm, and remember names!!! Works for me. I have all these friends now! Don't try too hard! Leave open spaces. It needs to look natural. Stay positive!!!!
If you do feel like you need to venture out of your comfort zone, remember, less is more. Be friendly, use irony/sarcasm, and remember names!!! Works for me. I have all these friends now! Don't try too hard! Leave open spaces. It needs to look natural. Stay positive!!!!
I've been told I'm a lot of things.
When you ask a question like this it shows you are seeking some kind of approval or outside validation. Ask yourself why you are doing this and what you believe you will accomplish.
Every time you make the opinion of someone else more important than your own.. you degrade yourself and elevate the other person. So ask yourself how you benefit from degrading yourself and elevating another person.
When you ask a question like this it shows you are seeking some kind of approval or outside validation. Ask yourself why you are doing this and what you believe you will accomplish.
Every time you make the opinion of someone else more important than your own.. you degrade yourself and elevate the other person. So ask yourself how you benefit from degrading yourself and elevating another person.