"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting to That Point Where Rejection From Women Doesn't Hurt Anymore

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Hey, if you're into hefty women, I envy you. Much better options...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I appreciate your additional response, Skirtchaser. And your attire suggestions are typically the way I tend to dress formally. That said, I would like to believe that if a woman genuinely likes a man, she wouldn't judge him primarily on the basis of the way he dresses. Sometimes, the clothes do not make the man. And I wouldn't really want you to think of me as being proud of my body. That's not exactly how I see it. I guess it's a novelty to me to notice how superficial many women in this country are, given the transformation that has taken place in me from my skinny days up until now.
 

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Frank2500 said:
That said, I would like to believe that if a woman genuinely likes a man, she wouldn't judge him primarily on the basis of the way he dresses.
and most women won't be judgemental of your dress. i mean, you should have no problem picking up women in sneakers, jeans and a t-shirt to be honest.

but, when you are dressed up it does increase their interest level in you. its not enough to make a woman who isn't interested suddenly become interested. but its enough to make a woman who is interested, even more interested.

i mean, sometimes in the summer i'll come across a chic with a hot little body and wearing one of those flowing summer dresses - and if she pulled the look off right its like something out of a porno dream sequence.

so while i had to be attracted to her to start with - provided i was, her choice in dress can impact just how interested i become initially.

now all that said, once you open your mouth how you are dressed won't help you.
 
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