"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting to know a hottie on myspace in action.

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Valdez

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Basically, just want to make a thread posting how you went about getting to know a hottie from myspace. Here's some messages sent back and forth to this hottie on myspace.

http://myspace-730.vo.llnwd.net/00197/03/74/197664730_l.jpg

Also, read the bottom message first than work your way up. Post your own little messages as well and feel free to offer advice as to things I could have said better or shouldn't have said at all.



seems like u can deal with most of my bs... interesting. lol... no eatin disorder though... actually i thought i had one for like a week.. it was right after men my ex had our break up. n i wasnt eatin too good. DAMN HIM... but im over it its been almost a month n im back to being a pig.. the lazy part it just depends.. im always up to do anything really. il always glad to get out of the house. but i dont like goin clubbin or partying.. im not a party gurl i guess. im lazy to get up to go to school. im in college lol so it cant fly too much. its just that i started that class last semester. n im takin it this semester cuz i droped last semester cuz my teacher was a crazy person. but im doin good so its ok. i DONT like my legs cuz i dunno. i just dont lol. they are ugly to me? never liked them. n im only shy when it comes to hittin on a guy or something like that. usually im not shy. i do adapt to peoples emotions though. if ur shy ill b shy if ur open ill b open... i just adjust to the vibes they give off... oh i forgot i totally forgot to mention i like a whole lot of attention from that one person. not from everyone.. just that one person i wanna b with. i like havin most of the attention from him, its bad. cuz usually i wont let him know i want the attention i just let him give it when he wants. but hopefully it alot. LOL the not being alone thing its usually when im out with someone i like them bein with me n not leavin me alone in their house or like... leavin me alone with their family or people i dont know... and i can drive on the high way when i know where im goin. n if i know the high way. LOL thats all...

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 14, 2005 11:18 AM

lol, thats awesome that you are telling me this. Now as for what I think about them...

Being lazy,
That can never be good, but people are lazy for different reasons. Like, I wouldn't care if you were to lazy to get up for school or anything, but if I wanted to go out and do something, example, going to the park to get some sun and walk my dog, and you didn't want to go cause you are a couch potato....thats BAD

Being Babied
Who doesnt like to be babied, plus you are a girl, don't see a problem with that.

Smokin the reefer
I smoke every now and then myself...used to be a straight up pothead in my midteens. Now its only a hit here and there. I'll probably have a buzz going while i'm working half the time anyway.

Being shy sometimes
alot of people are, but lets say if we met and we knew eachother for a while, if you were still shy at times when you were only with me I would think something was wrong. Can you say "character flaw"? lol.

Eating Alot and sometimes not wanting to eat
Just don't get fat! I hope you don't want to eat at times cause of a eating disorder...thats one thing I don't think I could deal with.

Hating your legs
Whats wrong with your legs?

Skipping School
I practically skipped my first two years of highschool. I got all that out of my system. I don't mind a girl skipping every now and then...just make sure you pass your classes.

Not liking being alone
That could be an advantage, could make it much more of a hassle to be able to spend time with you.

Scared of the dark...
LOL!....sorry, but thats funny.

Not driving on the highway
Girls don't belong on the highway anyway! lol. I like to be the one driving though, so if we were to go somewhere I would rather be the one driving regardless.

Not being naturally pretty
I can't comment on that right now

There we go!





----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 14, 2005 11:04 AM

oh gosh LOL turn offs.. lemme list them ALL.. see if any strike ur fancy. n imma b totally honest about these which usually i dunno im NEVER this honest bout dislikes about myself lol

umm im lazy, i like to b babied, i smoke every now n then (not cigs), im shy sometimes, somedays i can eat alot, somedays i dont even wanna eat, i hate my legs, i skip school (im skippin RIGHT now actually), i dont like being alone (only in my own house), im scared of the dark sometimes, i dont like drivin on the highway is its too far, (im tryin to think of more) i dont really think im naturally pretty so i wear make up (people tell me im crazy but whatever), i have a very low selfesteme, no confidence i guess, umm.. theres other things im sure.. lets see what ut hink about these first

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 14, 2005 10:54 AM

Well, thats part of the reason I messaged you. For guys, its usually better to be proactive and try to find somebody who would be a good fit. From your profile and your pictures I haven't seen anything that would turn me off to you, so I'm trying to get a better feel for who you are exactly.

Tell me a bit more about yourself, such as, on a typical weekday what would you be doing...how about weekends?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 14, 2005 10:45 AM

its very true... gurls are different here as well though.. so i hope u find someone ur type. ^_^

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 13, 2005 11:23 PM

Yup, exactly. I mean, I don't regret ever getting with her. Had great times and everything. I felt I grew alot with her and she helped me get through that point in my life. Time to move on though, I can't let a relationship get in the way of my progress, only help it. Who knows, might meet somebody who I like for a whole new set of reasons.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 13, 2005 11:11 PM

long distance doesnt work.. i mean u can try. but most likely the distance will start takin its toll.. so its actaully better to just break it off sooner rather then later..

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 13, 2005 11:01 PM

Here in San Antonio. We already talked about everything and I've told her that if she ever met a guy who she really liked, I would understand. I mean, I can't be the boyfriend I would want to be 300miles away. The thing that is killing me is she seems to be taking me leaving kind of hard, but this is an oppurtunity I can't pass up. You have an opinion on the subject?.



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:54 PM

thats good =) im glad. so is ur gf here or there?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:44 PM

yup...otherwise I'd be sitting around doing nothing. Going to have to go through a lack of a social life, but will give me a chance to do some things I have been putting off lately.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:41 PM

thats kool then ull keep urself bz

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:37 PM

Well, I actually have friends in the Arlington area, as I used to work there, and I have some family in fort worth. Its actually going to be me and my dad. Reason I'm moving is that he opened up a new shop dealing with showcars and I finally decided it wouldn't be a bad idea for me to learn the trade. I'm also going to be taught all about installing custom car audio setups and all that. So it should be awesome. I'm also going to be applying at a few clubs to work as a bartender during the weekend.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: <3 ****zilla <3
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:30 PM

oh wow.. so why are u moving over here? i used to live in san antonio myself i moved to arlington when i was in 8th grade. i went to Garner middle school over there.. i know u prolly dont have friends here yet.. but it kinda depends on what u like to. let me know

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C.
Date: Sep 13, 2005 10:20 PM

Hi how's it going? I was just checking out profiles and all that and I came across yours. Read through it and all that and thought you came across as somebody I would be willing to take some time to get to know. Hopefully my character judgement skills aren't failing on me now! I currently live in San Antonio but should be moving to Fort worth this upcoming Monday, so you can imagine how many people I know in that area (0). Well, check out my profile and whatnot and decide for yourself if you want to reply to this message and get yourself aquainted with me a bit more. Take care!

Brian

PS...the name ****zilla....that kinda scares me...put a bad picture in my head, but yet, I laughed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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people needing a blueprint that may help them getting things started with a girl over myspace, thats who.
 

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Originally posted by Valdez
people needing a blueprint that may help them getting things started with a girl over myspace, thats who.
wtf ?
why dont u go to a club.:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
wtf ?
why dont u go to a club.:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
Or at least out of your house.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The girls i met off of myspace, i simply said give me your number and we'll go out. No more, no less and things worked out fairly well.
 

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i think things are goin smooth man, get a number.. u two talked enough online and go for a date. Remember just to have fun
 

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Not too shabby work. Looks like you built up good rapport with her. Now just get her number. I would have asked for her SN on the second or third message and talked to her over that, cuz its would be faster to build a connection that way then over the myspace message system.
 
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