Getting through the nights....

[Pakwah]

Broken hearts, and thoughts going through ones head.
Usually the day brings something to occupy my head away from everything.
The nights come and i cannot sleep, or i do, and once i wake up, my head runs through tons of things and i cannot sleep

All i think about is my girl laying next to someone else, naked, or not, maybe they are having sex, he is getting it from her and i am not, he is next to her, im not, they are together, they are connecting, they are talking, someone else is touching her or playing with her or laughing with her, i miss it, i want it, im alone at night, with my thoughts...
Is it just time? Do i pop some pills? TV?
Some will say get a new girl and throw them in your bed, but that is not exactly a solution to me. People work the next day, that is not the answer.
It's 5am now and i cannot sleep, my head is spinnin.

How have others come to terms with what is obviously one of the hardest part of the pain?

 

[Cinamon]

How can you give one person in oyur life so much importance? Popping pills is the cowards way out. If you really want her, win her back, but dont wollow in self pity, for heavens sake!

 

[Pakwah]

i thought i was winning her back...long story.
and i dont wallow in self pity
my days are very good, full of friends, plans, exercise, work, family, hobbies, its just at night its the hardest
i mean pills, as in sleepin pills or stuff like that
have others had to reduce to stuff to help them sleep? what im askin is how people through hard times deal with the nights?

 

[Frog X]

A broken heart really, really sucks man, just know that in most cases its not that you miss her you, rather you miss the ego boost she gave you.

Tips I used to get over a chick I once got hung up on:

1. Talk about it to somebody. Do this once and once only.

2. Delete her number/contact details. Delete anything that reminds you of her.

3. When something comes up, say a song comes on that she liked, associate it with something else. Eventually instead of it reminding you of her, it will remind you of the thing you associated it with.

4. NO CONTACT!! :nono: Do not give her the satisfaction.

5. Find more girls. Have sex with said girls.

6. Refer to step 5.

EDIT: sorry didnt realise you were specifically refering to the nights....I personally think the nights are the by product of the days dude. So in that case go with the above advice