"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting things back on track (After a period of slacking off)

TheGameMaster

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This is my little self chat that i just typed up on MS word. Im gonna print it and read it whenever i feel i need to. I thought I would share it with you guys in case there are any points on it that could help you. But remember that one mans meat is another mans poison.

Time to sort ones life out


This is no emergency but I am losing self belief and confidence quite rapidly due to a few things. These things are:

Laziness/ a lack of WILLPOWER. My going to the gym, to krav maga and doing my coursework have all slipped dramatically. This can be directly linked with my recent reduction in happiness. It is simple to understand but difficult to maintain. Write a plan the night before each new day, and FOLLOW THAT PLAN. If you do not, you are out of control of your life. It is yours to grasp. Be a man and grasp it. Fair enough sometimes things will come up and you’ll have to ruin the plan a little, but assess the scenario to see if it is worth it.

The best REAL MEN/ DON JUANS get the feelings of laziness and lack of enthusiasm that I get at times. But the current difference between them and me is that they have the MENTAL POWER to do what they know they should anyway.
If I can do this consistently, then I must admit that I am turning into one of this earth’s great men.

STOP CARING WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. This does not mean don’t consider others, it means that I will do my thing regardless of what anyone else says about it. I know that I am a decent guy with good morals and so my character would never get me to do anything too out of order anyway. Literally anything, if I want to do it, I have to go do it to be true to myself. No matter what other people will think…if doing what I want when I want will make me mentally healthy, then SO BE IT.

MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. This is how I can become a greater guy than I already am. I must fearlessly create scenarios that will help me progress. Take charge, because remember that if you do not, then NOBODY WILL. This includes organising to meet the PUA guys midweek in bars and setting up a time every week to play some football with halls mates. Yes these situations can create some uncomfortable nerves inside me, but that uneasiness can be considered my INVESTMENT in achieving greater excitement and happiness in life.


Remember that, at times, you will feel that you’ve been doing this long enough and you’ll be tempted to stop. This is the hurdle that most men who try this kind of thing fall at. The GREAT MEN, can MENTALLY OVERCOME this setback to keep going. That TEST is the one that will put you up there with the BEST if you can pass it.

Also, remember that only 0.001% of guys take on a challenge like this. I really am the exception to the rule to be playing this life game the way I do. Remember this, because damn, your AURA is based on it, and it is HOT.

And as for why bother improving etc? We are currently in 3rd Density life. If you dont improve, stay positive and help others to do the same, you'll be stuck here for another reincarnation instead of moving on to the more satisfying 4th Density. Read this if you need convincing:
http://www.illuminati-news.com/00363.html

GAMEMASTER OUT :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Splendidostring

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Hey

lol ...4th dimension huh? That reminds me of that guy I worked with who had theories like that, kind of guy who smokes too much weed and end up being a schizo. God, I hate such crap ...where does all the nonsense comes from?
 
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