This is like my second post, but thought I'd expatiate a little on my recent clubbing experiences.
I still need to work on the grinding part; the ladies seem uninterested after only a few moments. But, I'd rather figure out on my own the WHY of it all rather than make a no0b post. But I digress...I made an interesting discovery...
The clubs I go to either have chairs or tables right near/on the dance floor. To kind of get warmed up, I sit there in kind of a slouched posture and bounce my legs to the beat. I mean, my knees are bouncing perfectly to the beat, snares and all.
The first time this happened I thought it was just coincidence, but I learned that I'm able to REPEAT the process!
That's right, I'm sittin there, smiling, enjoying the music, half-moving to the beat and girls will come and PULL me up out of my chair to dance with them. That or I'll be sitting at a table and a two-set will slowly make their way in front of me and eventually ask if I wanna joint them.
I'm not sure if it's all out of pity, but it's rather interesting how predictable it is. Plus, when I get going, I usually have a circle around me cheering me on and the girls who initiated it all are kinda shocked.
Anyways, just thought I'd share that experience. Maybe it's some psychological trait of women that I don't see but someone else here is familiar with.
Thoughts?
I still need to work on the grinding part; the ladies seem uninterested after only a few moments. But, I'd rather figure out on my own the WHY of it all rather than make a no0b post. But I digress...I made an interesting discovery...
The clubs I go to either have chairs or tables right near/on the dance floor. To kind of get warmed up, I sit there in kind of a slouched posture and bounce my legs to the beat. I mean, my knees are bouncing perfectly to the beat, snares and all.
The first time this happened I thought it was just coincidence, but I learned that I'm able to REPEAT the process!
That's right, I'm sittin there, smiling, enjoying the music, half-moving to the beat and girls will come and PULL me up out of my chair to dance with them. That or I'll be sitting at a table and a two-set will slowly make their way in front of me and eventually ask if I wanna joint them.
I'm not sure if it's all out of pity, but it's rather interesting how predictable it is. Plus, when I get going, I usually have a circle around me cheering me on and the girls who initiated it all are kinda shocked.
Anyways, just thought I'd share that experience. Maybe it's some psychological trait of women that I don't see but someone else here is familiar with.
Thoughts?