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Getting The Threesome?

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Long story short I had 2 girls in my bed last night, one on each side. One 22 year old and her newly 18 friend, hb8 and hb 7 respectively. The 8 has a boyfriend so I know that makes it even more difficult. We were playing Fortnite in my bed at like 3am lol.

Really wish I could’ve threesomed but oh well.

I turned the convo slightly sexual and tried to get them to make out but couldn’t accomplish that to try and get things started so I kinda just gave up and we fell asleep.

Any of you guys have experience with this? If so what do you do?

Btw it wasn’t girls that I picked up anywhere, it was 2 girls in my social circle.

Thanks.
 

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... one word: ALCOHOL.

You're welcome.
Haha we were pretty ****ed up.. booze/weed. It must have been my fault. Never been in the scenario before. There will most likely be the same situation tonight unless I get the smash with a different 7 I invitedfor a party tonight. I’ve had a 4some before back in the high school days (one of my good friends and 2 women).

Wasn’t really a 4some we kinda just switched girls here and there lol, but it was completely facilitated by the girls, my buddy and I put in absolutely zero effort lol. Super slvts.

Yes we wrapped our tools.
 
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Long story short I had 2 girls in my bed last night, one on each side. One 22 year old and her newly 18 friend, hb8 and hb 7 respectively. The 8 has a boyfriend so I know that makes it even more difficult. We were playing Fortnite in my bed at like 3am lol.

Really wish I could’ve threesomed but oh well.

I turned the convo slightly sexual and tried to get them to make out but couldn’t accomplish that to try and get things started so I kinda just gave up and we fell asleep.

Any of you guys have experience with this? If so what do you do?

Btw it wasn’t girls that I picked up anywhere, it was 2 girls in my social circle.

Thanks.
I don't think you can do this, but if you could, then you need to know the relevant details:

1. how likely is the HB8 to cheat on her boyfriend?
2. do they swing both ways? (if they're not even willing to try anything with another girl it's doubtful they'd go for a threesome, ditto if they're not particularly open minded)
3. how close are the girls? (if they're like family or if the don't get along then those are no gos)
4. if people in the circle find out, how will they react? (if they think it would get out and ruin their reps because you guys know each other from bible study or are coworkers or something, then they probably won't do it)

etc.

but basically all three of you drunk in bed talking about sex and flirting is the most likely way it's gonna happen if it does
 

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You don't have to get them to start with each other. They don't even have to touch each other sexually the whole time. They do not have to be bisexual. They do not have to be drunk (although it can sometimes help move it along a little faster). It doesn't matter if they have a boyfriend. And if they are young, it doesn't even matter if they are the feminine kind of lesbian.

They just have to both be horny and attracted to you like any individual girl would.

In my experience, however, there were a few basics I noticed that often made the difference between a threesome being very possible and one that was just a man's overexcited attempt to go for the dream just because there happened to be 2 women present.

1. They were never best or close friends who hung out with each other routinely. In every 3some I've experienced it was with 2 girls from the same general social circle who knew each other well enough to hang together but did not hang with each other often.

2. They were both receptive to and responsive to me flirting with them even in front of the other.

3. None of these women knew my regular friends all that well, or even at all. Same is true of myself and their friends. The closest they were to me socially was maybe A friend of a friend sort of thing; 2 degrees of separation usually,

4. As I said earlier, they were both sexually attracted to me and willing on their own; women I could have had sex with outside of a threesome.


Getting it started:

I followed two typical approaches based entirely on the types of girls that were involved.

If both are bi, or one is bi and the other lesbian, then yes, having them start on each other was always the best route. It doesn't work so well or at all if one or both are straight.

If one or both are straight, I turned it into a "who has the sexiest..." Contest.

Who has the sexiest ass

Who has the sexiest breasts.

Who is wearing the sexiest bra.

Who is wearing the sexiest underwear.

Who has the sexiest kiss....
Hey thanks for the tips man.

Numbers 2 & 4 that you outlined we’re definitely in my favor. Numbers 1 & 3 were not.

They definitely hang with each other a lot (close friends) and they knew my friends (or I guess just 1 friend) that was my roommate pretty well. One of them grew up a house down from him and his sister, the other came in the picture later I guess.

This situation was definitely my overexcited attempt at the dream haha. At the same time I didn’t expect it to come to fruition, I just thought “**** it let’s see how far they will go”

Wasn’t very far lol so then it became sleep time.
 

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60% of the time it works every time



What you gotta do is buy drugs and convince them to try molly or something
They aren’t opposed to it, they are edm festival type girls.

I think they were more concerned about the social repercussions the next day or something. And the fact that our walls are paper thin and their best friends they grew up with were sleeping in the bedroom right next door lol
 

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They aren’t opposed to it, they are edm festival type girls.

I think they were more concerned about the social repercussions the next day or something. And the fact that our walls are paper thin and their best friends they grew up with were sleeping in the bedroom right next door lol
Book a hotel room or something and bring stuff to party with (alcohol, drugs, jello shots, whatever)
 

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I had one with my exwife and a female friend of ours. It started with alcohol on our patio. Next thing I was dancing to the music making the girls laugh. I went in to make the some mixed drinks, came back out and stirred their drinks with my penis. lol. Next thing you know they are trying to touch it and I am getting a blojob from both of them at the same time before we moved inside.
 

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Besides the lesbian couple (an odd exception that I sort of fell into) I hook up with on occasion, it's been over 2 years since the last time I made this happen. But the key to making this work is that you have to be completely open sexually and give off the impression that you are not judgmental. If you know the chick(s) involved and it isn't some kind of casual encounter, then she/they have to know that you are not someone that is going to go around talking about it. If she/they think you may be judgmental or can't keep your mouth shut, then you are going to have a hard time convincing them to do this. Other than that there really is nothing special about this, you just get things started with one and you have to just let things evolve and the other will join in or not... There have been plenty of times in my life where I would get things going and the other would just leave... which is fine, you can't make this happen, if the chicks want to do it, they will... if they don't it's no big deal.

I will say this, if you are in some kind of steady relationship with a women, and you've been doing this with just you two for sometime, then you spring this on her after a few months.... well, in my experience you are not going to be able to make this happen, she might.... but if this something you want, you have to make it clear from the beginning of the 'relationship' this is what you like. 3-ways just have to be another sexual experience that you like... if you make a big deal out of it then you will have problems.

One other thing the OP mentioned that is a trend in my experience is that one of them had a 'boyfriend', let me tell you this is USUALLY the case. In fact the last time was with a chick I was casually dating and her 'friend' that afterward found out she was married. A newly wed no less.... Chicks that want to cheat will use 3-ways as a sort of deflection that it really isn't cheating... it's chick logic, but that is how their minds work sometimes. It's almost like "I was making out with my girlfriend... which isn't cheating... and... well the other dude SHE was with just happened to be there."

Not sure if this helps, but I really don't change the way I approach seduction. I run my game and what happens... happens.
 
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I had one with my exwife and a female friend of ours. It started with alcohol on our patio. Next thing I was dancing to the music making the girls laugh. I went in to make the some mixed drinks, came back out and stirred their drinks with my penis. lol. Next thing you know they are trying to touch it and I am getting a blojob from both of them at the same time before we moved inside.
Lmao is this actually true?? That is legit like a porn movie. If that really happened then all I can say is wow... Good. Fvcking. Job. Amazing.
 

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Besides the lesbian couple (an odd exception that I sort of feel into) I hook up with on occasion, it's been over 2 years since the last time I made this happen. But the key to making this work is that you have to be completely open sexually and give off the impression that you are not judgmental. If you know the chick(s) involved and it isn't some kind of casual encounter, then she/they have to know that you are not someone that is going to go around talking about it. If she/they think you may be judgmental or can't keep your mouth shut, then you are going to have a hard time convincing them to do this. Other than that there really is nothing special about this, you just get things started with one and you have to just let things evolve and the other will join in or not... There have been plenty of times in my life where I would get things going and the other would just leave... which is fine, you can't make this happen, if the chicks want to do it, they will... if they don't it's no big deal.

I will say this, if you are in some kind of steady relationship with a women, and you've been doing this with just you two for sometime, then you spring this on her after a few months.... well, in my experience you are not going to be able to make this happen, she might.... but if this something you want, you have to make it clear from the beginning of the 'relationship' this is what you like. 3-ways just have to be another sexual experience that you like... if you make a big deal out of it then you will have problems.

One other thing the OP mentioned that is a trend in my experience is that one of them had a 'boyfriend', let me tell you this is USUALLY the case. In fact the last time was with a chick I was casually dating and her 'friend' that afterward found out she was married. A newly wed no less.... Chicks that want to cheat will use 3-ways as a sort of deflection that it really isn't cheating... it's chick logic, but that is how their minds work sometimes. It's almost like "I was making out with my girlfriend... which isn't cheating... and... well the other dude SHE was with just happened to be there."

Not sure if this helps, but I really don't change the way I approach seduction. I run my game and what happens... happens.
Thanks for the tips. I didn’t think about going at it with one and having the other join. I was thinking it had to be getting them to go at it with each other first and then I come in.

The scenario in my original post is definitely something I can see happening again in the near future so I’ll recalibrate accordingly and see if I can make it happen haha.

‘Ppreciate it.
 

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Lmao is this actually true?? That is legit like a porn movie. If that really happened then all I can say is wow... Good. Fvcking. Job. Amazing.
yeah it's legit. make girls laugh, add booze, be sexual and things like this can happen.
 
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