"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey you guys. Right now looking at this prude girl who looks good, and all that stuff. However i was just wondering what ya'll's advice is to breaking down her shield and screwing this girl like crazy. The Challenge sounds awesome to me so dont tell me to next her and tell me how to get rid of her prudeness or any experience on girls like this. Ive talked to her about sex before, and I can see her prudeness slightly coming undone when i do (hopefully like her clothes will be eventually ;) ) Give me the advice!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm sorry but I don't like when guys try to take advantage of prude girls , because they are usually the nicer girls with alot going for them. If you can't respect that and like her for what she is , then next her and get the run of the mill give it up gradually after two weeks chick that wont remember a few years down the road..
 
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Trying to take advantage? WTF The whole point is the challenge, so why would I get with a put out in two weeks girl. Anways its not like this is going to **** her up for the rest of her life man damn. I dont know about you but I do what the **** I want, so give me the advice fellas.
 
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In all reality, if you did have sex with her it would affect her for the rest of her life. More than likely, this girl is a virgin and she's "prude" for a reason. Maybe she's saving herself for marriage, she has had bad history with guys, or she just doesn't want to right now until she meets the right guy. I mean I guess there's no harm in trying but I'm telling you, you're going to have to put a lot of work into it. If you're just looking to have sex, find some chick that'll put out in a few weeks. My advice is, don't mess with the other chick, you're only going to make problems for both of you.
 
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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
In all reality, if you did have sex with her it would affect her for the rest of her life. More than likely, this girl is a virgin and she's "prude" for a reason. Maybe she's saving herself for marriage, she has had bad history with guys, or she just doesn't want to right now until she meets the right guy. I mean I guess there's no harm in trying but I'm telling you, you're going to have to put a lot of work into it. If you're just looking to have sex, find some chick that'll put out in a few weeks. My advice is, don't mess with the other chick, you're only going to make problems for both of you.
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Agreed. And it's not really fair to her if you work for it, pretending to care about her the whole time and she starts to care about you, when really all you want is her p*ssy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are you guys talking about? :confused:

Give him advice, don't lecture him on his perceived actions.
 
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Porky, some people seem to be losing the plot of what we are trying to achieve here. We are not out to hurt girls or change them to how we like and get in their pants only. This is a way of life.
That's why people are going on a bit.
 
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Ok so to ya'll I do what I want so I dont need the advice, what the fck are ya'll my mother now? I wanted advice to get the girl not lectures. I know its not going to freaking harm this girl, and I know shes going to pick herself up when everything is gone. And anyway if it did happen between us I would stick with her and not just leave her. And anyways its not a fuking lifestyle or whatever, its just about doing WHATEVER YOU WANT. Thats the lifestle! So give me the advice for getting the girl, not a lecture por favor.
 
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Setting aside my morals, here's your advice. You want to get in her pants, seduce her. Read that awesome link on the top right hand corner and use some SS. Show her she can trust you. (Great women are a little harder to get than *****s.) You'll definitely have to earn her trust before you can get into the game.
 
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Originally posted by Porky
What are you guys talking about? :confused:

Give him advice, don't lecture him on his perceived actions.
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I agree. All of you should Fvck off. If he wants to do something, he will. who are you to tell him not to, or lecture him on the "greater picture" of what we djs are trying to accomplish? If you can't contribute, then dont.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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try but youre not going to get anywhere..... youre interested in sex and you want it from a virgin, thats a PRUDE....doesnt make much sense to me....

ive tried to get some from some of those prude good girls that are pretty hot but theyre prudes!! you never get anywhere with them....especially if theyre still like 16-18....after a little while of saying the whole im not going to have sex until i get married gets old and they might end up having sex.
 
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i was in a slightly similar situation only i didn't want to fukk this girl all the way i just wanted to h/u wit her...stillw aiting for the girl to come back from vacation so i can work on my newly aquired DJ skilzz :p
 
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I wasn't trying to lecture, but honestly it's not that hard. You shouldn't have to ask for advice on things that are found over and over and over again in the Don Juan Bible.
 
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Lol yeah prude chicks are the worst. They will only lose their virginity to guys they think they love. Is it worth it making her fall in love ith you and then when you don't marry her she runs off and tells everyone how horrible you are and then becomes a lesbian.

She will forever live with the fact that you knocked her up and become one of those evil *****es that everyone hates because she lives to destroy men and chop off their members.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Lol yeah prude chicks are the worst. They will only lose their virginity to guys they think they love. Is it worth it making her fall in love ith you and then when you don't marry her she runs off and tells everyone how horrible you are and then becomes a lesbian.

She will forever live with the fact that you knocked her up and become one of those evil *****es that everyone hates because she lives to destroy men and chop off their members.
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lol actually i remember my first love and crash and burn. it doesnt make u go homo/girl hating, it makes u tougher.

u'll actually do them a favor in a sick, distorted way.
 
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I wasn't talking about a guy I was talking about the chick. They are wired weirdly and they do become male hating. Ask my step-mom. She is about as hating of the male race as you can get. lol. I am sure she wants me to die.
 
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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
lol actually i remember my first love and crash and burn. it doesnt make u go homo/girl hating, it makes u tougher.

u'll actually do them a favor in a sick, distorted way.
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oh right... a tough feminist *****...just what everyone needs.
 
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Case being, if she sticks to her morals after you've come across in a sexual way, then let her be and find some other girl that actually might be interested. But, I'm not gonna try and stop you from trying. If she is actually interested in you sexually, by all means, go for it. I'm not saying I would, because I know I wouldn't, but I'm just saying it would probably be a better idea to be doing this for more than to just have fun.
 
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