"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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getting the parents' trust..

djneo

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.. i like to ask every DJ here in the forum about their style on handling the parents of their girlfriend? can u give me some tips.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Frink'

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Smile, be polite and make some smalltalk. Be the first to take initiative to shake their hand and introduce yourself. Thats it basicly. You don't really have to do that much. Just let time take care of the trust. And dont show nervousness.
 

foomee

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if you want, ask their daughter what her parents' hobbies are. then maybe you can see if you guys have something in common and subtly mention it.
 

Eugene123

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Try using some nlp techniques on um. If they don't know what you are doing it'll work like a charm. If they do know, it'll tick um off a bit. match sensory words, and body language.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Be good to their daughter. If she's happy with you she'll let her parents know in detail. They may even bring you into their fold if their daughter makes you sound like family when she talks about you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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insomniac

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djneo said:
.. i like to ask every DJ here in the forum about their style on handling the parents of their girlfriend? can u give me some tips.
Not cheating on their daughter might be a good start.
 

Ostepop

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All parents like youth with ambition, be polite, and have some good goals in live that you want to achieve (on paper anyways).
 

djneo

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trust

can u give some tips on how to bring myself..? she told me that her parents opinion about me was being "****y" ?
 
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