Getting the numbers easy... asking her out on the phone WTF?

[Wildstyle]

Waddup guys,


Ive got a lil problem thats messin me up n i need some advice.

When im out sarging, i get the girl, the number, and most of the time some foreplay. But I dont know what happens when i wanna ask her out using txt messages and basically phone game. Like it ****s **** up n im usually more of an alpha male when i get the number.... n i just dont know wat happens.

If u guys could tell me like the lines u use to ask a girl out wen u txting them or on the phone, n then i can interpret them in ma own game... thatll help me out alot.


Pce Bruthas

 

[eaglez1177]

First off, NEVER use any pre-planned lines when it comes to a girl. That just doesnt work; just be yourself and be natural about it. Its not so hard and complicated that you have to think up a pre planned line lol.

Secondly, dont ASK a girl to hang out, TELL her that you want to hang out/that she should come along

Thirdly, never do what I just mentioned over txt, phone, or internet. It HAS to be in person, so that the girl knows that you're CONFIDENT and not afraid to suggest hanging out in person.

 

[thedoc]

First off, NEVER use any pre-planned lines when it comes to a girl. That just doesnt work; just be yourself and be natural about it. Its not so hard and complicated that you have to think up a pre planned line lol.

Secondly, dont ASK a girl to hang out, TELL her that you want to hang out/that she should come along

Thirdly, never do what I just mentioned over txt, phone, or internet. It HAS to be in person, so that the girl knows that you're CONFIDENT and not afraid to suggest hanging out in person.

Eaglez- What's wrong with texting/calling..? How are you going to see her in the first place? I used to be all call and no text but now I'm starting to see that it depends on the situation; calling could get awkward at times and texting works well too. Internet- try to stray away from it.

Wildstyle- But I agree with Eaglez on the rest, DO NOT ASK!!!!! What's works very well for me is I suggest 2-3 things for a first date: usually bowling, ice skating or hooka, depends on the girl. I suggest against movies because your likely to not hu on the first date and it would be a waste of time and money lol. Either way, if she says she doesn't want to do any of your suggestions and DOESN'T offer an alternative she's most likely not interested. There's a post somewhere on this site about it and it's been one of the most helpful posts I've read. I'll find the exact post for you later.

 

[eaglez1177]

If you have absolutely no other way of seeing the girl in person, then you obviously have to call. If it comes to this, always better to call than text simply because its just that much closer to doing it in person. Plus the girl can actually hear your confidence, as opposed to texting.

If there is an opportunity that you will see her in person again, you HAVE to suggest hanging out when you see her! Like I said, it shows that your confident enough and not afraid to do it in person.