"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting the numbers easy... asking her out on the phone WTF?

Wildstyle

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Waddup guys,


Ive got a lil problem thats messin me up n i need some advice.

When im out sarging, i get the girl, the number, and most of the time some foreplay. But I dont know what happens when i wanna ask her out using txt messages and basically phone game. Like it ****s **** up n im usually more of an alpha male when i get the number.... n i just dont know wat happens.

If u guys could tell me like the lines u use to ask a girl out wen u txting them or on the phone, n then i can interpret them in ma own game... thatll help me out alot.


Pce Bruthas
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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eaglez1177

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First off, NEVER use any pre-planned lines when it comes to a girl. That just doesnt work; just be yourself and be natural about it. Its not so hard and complicated that you have to think up a pre planned line lol.

Secondly, dont ASK a girl to hang out, TELL her that you want to hang out/that she should come along

Thirdly, never do what I just mentioned over txt, phone, or internet. It HAS to be in person, so that the girl knows that you're CONFIDENT and not afraid to suggest hanging out in person.
 

thedoc

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eaglez1177 said:
First off, NEVER use any pre-planned lines when it comes to a girl. That just doesnt work; just be yourself and be natural about it. Its not so hard and complicated that you have to think up a pre planned line lol.

Secondly, dont ASK a girl to hang out, TELL her that you want to hang out/that she should come along

Thirdly, never do what I just mentioned over txt, phone, or internet. It HAS to be in person, so that the girl knows that you're CONFIDENT and not afraid to suggest hanging out in person.
Eaglez- What's wrong with texting/calling..? How are you going to see her in the first place? I used to be all call and no text but now I'm starting to see that it depends on the situation; calling could get awkward at times and texting works well too. Internet- try to stray away from it.

Wildstyle- But I agree with Eaglez on the rest, DO NOT ASK!!!!! What's works very well for me is I suggest 2-3 things for a first date: usually bowling, ice skating or hooka, depends on the girl. I suggest against movies because your likely to not hu on the first date and it would be a waste of time and money lol. Either way, if she says she doesn't want to do any of your suggestions and DOESN'T offer an alternative she's most likely not interested. There's a post somewhere on this site about it and it's been one of the most helpful posts I've read. I'll find the exact post for you later.
 

eaglez1177

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If you have absolutely no other way of seeing the girl in person, then you obviously have to call. If it comes to this, always better to call than text simply because its just that much closer to doing it in person. Plus the girl can actually hear your confidence, as opposed to texting.

If there is an opportunity that you will see her in person again, you HAVE to suggest hanging out when you see her! Like I said, it shows that your confident enough and not afraid to do it in person.
 
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