"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting the number in 10 seconds....

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Getting the Number in Less Than 10 Seconds

by Player of the Year


Who says you have to spend at least a few minutes talking to her when approaching in an awkward, non-pickup environment?

I can get the number in less than 10 seconds flat in these types of pick-up situations. All you have to do is go through a quick and simple intro and number close. It's that easy.

It not only saves you a lot of time and effort but it also allows for your confident player style to develop and shine right through.

So what exactly do you say?

Well that varies from situation to situation but it's basically all the same. It's essential that you first get some eye contact and a smile and/or wave in order to pull off the "player approach."

The simple 1-2-3...

1. I'll usually start out by saying, "Hey, what's your name?" or "Hi/Hey" (wait for her to say the same, then ask what her name is).

2. If she asks what my name is then I tell her, but if not, then I just go on to step 3. She'll definitely ask you what your name is when she's giving you her number.

3. Then I number close by saying something like "Hey, let me get your number so I can call you sometime."

* The key is to sound like you're in a rush so that she gives out her number without hesitating. Note that you'll still have to work your game when you call her to get her to go out with you or agree to a booty call.

Those are the basic player principles.

Remember that the "player approach" is intended to be used during untimely situations such as when you're at a store, you're walking by her, or it just happens to be some random chance encounter anywhere.

You may come across some difficulties, especially during your initial attempts, but you'll be able to handle them once you've mastered the "player approach."
Would this really work? Have any of you tried it and if so what happened? Plus getting the number is not really a guarentee for sex or a date now is it?


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by bluelemond




Would this really work? Have any of you tried it and if so what happened? Plus getting the number is not really a guarentee for sex or a date now is it?
Okay...

As I was reading this I was thinking that you had this working for you, but then you turn around and ask US if it would work?:confused: :confused:

Honestly.......... It might work.
 

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Would this really work?
Yes. However, it won't work very often... even less if you're unattractive or unconfident.
Have any of you tried it and if so what happened?
Why don't you give it a shot and let us know?
Plus getting the number is not really a guarentee for sex or a date now is it?
You're just now figuring that out? :rolleyes:
 

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Wow, a number. :rolleyes: Typical commercial-seduction bull**** in that one. You've created no attraction, what are you going to do, call her up and say "Hey, I'm that dude that talked to you for 10 seconds at that one place, let's go do _______." and she'll say "Yeah sure!"? sure, some guys could get it, especially if you are really good looking and talking to a girl below your "league", but still, a # is just that a, a #. You've still gotta do work. Now, it might be fun to go out and try this for the hell of it, and for practice.
 

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in my experience it works if the girl either knows you by social group or has atleast heard of you, or if shes given u a fake number.

you need to atleast make it clear that ur a sound guy hu isnt going 2 stalk her. this will only take minutes so no sweat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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try it out and report back.

The big negative to this approach, for me at least, is that it leaves your real first impression to the phone call. I'd rather have that opportunity IRL than over the phone so I can use and read body language.

I think you might get a number or two out of shock but I could see this easily leading to a lot of fakes and flakes.
 
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