Getting the hottest girls off myspace and into your bed

SetzerSky

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For over four years now I've been meeting and seducing absolutely beautiful girls off various social networking sites such as myspace and facebook as another venue for pickup. Many guys have tried and failed when it comes to the world of internet pickup but truly it is something that anyone can do; and it can be learned. My hope is that I can give you fine gentleman a few pointers so that you can experience the ease and passion of exchanging a few brief messages, moving to the phone, then meeting for coffee, and finally looking down at this beautiful 10 with 20k friends online naked under you, soft lips parted in a moan.

Online seduction holds many parallels with the world of offline seduction. After all women are women. If you flip the right switches your arms become their home. Yet the intricacies of online pickup are different, and thus can make or break any seduction. Obviously the biggest difference is the lack of any real inflection conveyed normally in the tonality of your voice. Also notably absent is body language. Although the lack of these two components of interaction may at first seem like a bad thing, it can actually be an incredible asset.

You see when you initiate contact online with a girl you have a truly blank slate. She has no preconceived notions about your social or economic status besides exactly what you choose to present to her based on your page and initial message. You truly have a blank canvas to work on and as an artist you can present yourself as the man of her dreams. Before long she will be thinking it was actually fate that brought you together over the impossible distance of the internet. I’ve seen it a thousand times. A few brief messages and you can have a girl spilling her deepest secrets she doesn’t even tell her closest friends, getting lost in the anonymity with a beautiful stranger whom she fantasizes about so much more with. Of course do this wrong and you will be labeled as just another creeper on the internet. But that’s why I’m here to help.

You see we so very rarely truly know a person on the deepest true, level. In fact, that is an incredibly philosophical concept I’m not going to get into here. Generally, all we know is the image of a person. The face they show to the world. What we grow to love, admire and respect, is merely what we perceive them as. The advantage of online seduction is that there is no body language or tonality to give you away if you’re still dealing with any confidence issues, and thus the structure of your language and page are the entire foundation of her impression of you. Even if you have the utmost confidence and social standing your words can only bolster that. Do you see where I’m going with this? You can become anything to her. Even when you move to the phone followed by the actual first meeting this image you’ve both built together of each other will carry over. First impressions are incredibly difficult to shake. And as you look down at that beautiful naked girl under you on your bed and see her smile, you’ll know you’re giving her something she only dreamed about before.

I'll be making a series of posts and offering bits of advice on both this, and fashion. Check out my blog linked in my sig below for more information and advice. Until then, happy sarging!
 

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This wouldn't work on Facebook. I cannot use my facebook page as a blank canvas to paint myself as the man of a womans dreams. All my friends and family are also on my facebook and they would question why I'm changing everything. If my page, as it is, paints me as the man of their dreams than thats fine. But I couldn't alter it without seeming fake...how would you suggest I "paint it" while still keeping all the info on there congruent with my life? I dont have a ton of party pictures, I dont have an awesome job, I'm not muscular or tall. These are things online women like to see before they'll even RESPOND to your messages.

Also, you say you've seen it done "a thousand times" could you elaborate on this number as it seems astronomically high. From my experience online gaming is way harder than in real life. I was on plenty of fish and even fat girls were denying me. I know, I shouldn't have been hitting on them, but I thought I'd just see what happens...
 

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I get tired of reading stuff like this. Its the same story with every type of PUA online advise:

If she looked at your picture and liked it, you could say anything and it would work. If she did not like your picture, every possible technique will fail 100% of the time.
 

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Online gaming isnt as effective as In person.
Your a sham whos probly landed no more then 2 slutty myspace 5's
You reek of commercialism, like your trying to sell something.

The best advice is genuine. Not generic.
 

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Typical defeatist attitudes. I've seen perfectly unattractive guys seduce completely beautiful girls online. Is it rare? Yes. But it happens.

It just requires coming at it from the right angle. Said angle is determined by how you look, how the girl looks, the information on yours and her pages, ect. You send the right email and it doesn't matter what you look like, you're going to make her laugh and even if shes not attracted to you in that way yet she'll feel that there is no harm in continuing a harmless but fun conversation. From there you move into those deeper, more thought provoking questions, and before you know it, it becomes something more.

In a sense though, you are all right, online game is harder that real life in fact that you do get rejected, or at least ignored, much more.

But this turns into accuracy by volume. You message 100 cuties which probably takes you and hour or so with a good stock opener and some of them are going to bite, unless your profile is just tragically pathetic, but that can be changed.
 

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yo dude, do you have an msn adress or something? I'd like to talk to you I was a big AFC a year ago and internet socializing helped me improve my game BIGTIME I have some flaws though and to be honest I think you really can help me and I maybe even have some tips to help you.. you must be some sort of internet socializing guru:p

PM ur address to me if you'd like to talk personally with me.
 

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SetzerSky said:
You send the right email and it doesn't matter what you look like, you're going to make her laugh and even if shes not attracted to you in that way yet she'll feel that there is no harm in continuing a harmless but fun conversation. From there you move into those deeper, more thought provoking questions, and before you know it, it becomes something more.
Uh huh sure:rolleyes:
 

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this is straight up bull****. eveyone knows women online are not even interested in meeting guys they are just looking for attention and to play games like in real life but online it's worse. just sign up at plentyofskank i mean plentyoffish and try talking to some of the girls there. if you send out 100 emails you'll be lucky to get 1 reply. bull****ing****
 

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how can you present yourself as something you're not without losing your integrity? I mean, there's nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward. But if you stray too far from the truth then you may lose your inner compass... at least that is what I have seen.
 

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Notgoodwithgirls said:
this is straight up bull****. eveyone knows women online are not even interested in meeting guys they are just looking for attention and to play games like in real life but online it's worse. just sign up at plentyofskank i mean plentyoffish and try talking to some of the girls there. if you send out 100 emails you'll be lucky to get 1 reply. bull****ing****
I find your ideas intriguing, and I would like to subscribe to your newsletter! lol
 

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I've seen perfectly unattractive guys seduce completely beautiful girls online.

Really? Prove it. Lets see Pics or STFU! It has never happened in my experience...ever
 

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SetzerSky said:
You send the right email and it doesn't matter what you look like, you're going to make her laugh and even if shes not attracted to you in that way yet she'll feel that there is no harm in continuing a harmless but fun conversation.
What if I told you a few months ago I had a profile on PlentyOffish, had strong game, yet came came out empty handed..couldn't get past 2 emails with each chick? I know for a fact my game was strong. I even had one hottie email me back saying in her own words how she "never responds to guys emails, but responded to mine because it was a great line and really made her laugh". Now that same woman, mind you, I sent her a follow-up after that, but never got back a response. What the f*ck? Again, it was a good follow-up with solid game, trust me. I will however say though that I did get a response from at least half of all the hotties I messaged. But what good is that if I have nothing to show for it? A waste of time.

Oh yeah, don't forget the fact too that I'm also an above average looking guy.
 

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Not to mention that most of the girls that DO respond back, and might actually meet you off the Internet are either:

Attention W****s
BPD's
Any other mental illness you want to list
Solid 4,5, and 6's who are just desperate

Trust me, it is RARE as hell to find a hot chick who shows a guy the time of day. Internet gaming is dicey at best.
 

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This is one of the most vague posts ever!
First off, Internet dating sucks. Stick to real life!

Second, you don't know who the f**k is there on the other end!

Third, this sh*t is all Greek to many of us!
 

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I met a girl on Craigslist who was 20, worked at Starbucks, good-looking... She was a generally good girl and we dated for a month before I broke up with her. (I should have not gone for a relationship. Since then, I've come to believe that relationships are no good.)

She advertised for a nice, wholesome guy, told about her music and movie interests and stuff, and posted a pic. This is what I sent her:

"Hi, I'm a nice, wholesome guy. I think we would get along pretty well, judging by what you posted. I play guitar and love music. I'm 6'1'' or 6'2''. My name's Ryan and I seem to be throwing random facts about myself into this email; well, whatever works. I love excitement, new experiences, and deep conversation, but I would really like to find a (girl)friend to be my running partner in laughing at life... Eating, drinking, and going places, but also just hanging out and watching movies. Oh, I'm 21, and single of course. I like to draw, and I really do love music and movies... I drive to Austin every couple of weeks to see friends, and I have been wanting to try out 6th street (the live music scene there.)

PS. You can friend me on Facebook (my name is ________), but I think I'm better looking in real life than in my photos... At least I hope so, cause I look like a bag of ass in most of them.

Peace! -Ryan
(my phone number)"

It wasn't the best email ever, but you should have seen the others that she got... They were ****in' gross: No spelling or grammar, no sentence structure, and a lot of offers of foot-rubs and stuff like that. My letter got me a foot in the door by not coming off as desperate straight-away, I guess... I seemed like I had potential to be a straightforward person with her. And we had similar interests so that helped.

I bet POF is different than Craigslist though. Just saying.. It's quite possible to meet real, sexually attractive girls and get laid over the internet. I'm 1 for 1 actually.. this was the first time I tried it.

EDIT: I wanna add in more info about this girl. She was a solid 6 or 7, quite attractive and a fun person, had her life together enough to stay healthy, and she had friends, and other guys into her. She never knew her father... I broke up with her... She wasn't a goddess, but I wasn't a god, so we were a good match.

This is making me kinda miss her... I liked her a lot actually; part of the reason I broke up with her was that I'm moving to LA in a few months and I don't want to get attached.
 

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Just so you guys know I've used plentyoffish to meet several ladies, and my messages RARELY do not get a response. I'd say I get a response and back and forth conversation 80% of the time. I don't even have a picture on my profile. The last girl I met on there won't leave me alone and now texts me almost every day, so u have to be careful for that. But yeah, if you're not getting responses, it's all in the way you message them.
 

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WhtRbt said:
Just so you guys know I've used plentyoffish to meet several ladies, and my messages RARELY do not get a response. I'd say I get a response and back and forth conversation 80% of the time. I don't even have a picture on my profile. The last girl I met on there won't leave me alone and now texts me almost every day, so u have to be careful for that. But yeah, if you're not getting responses, it's all in the way you message them.
Are the girls attractive? If not, it doesn't matter how many messages you get. I get messaged all the time from 5-6's on POF-- who cares.
 

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INTERESTING REFURBISHED CONCEPTS/IDEAS. These so called tips you offer are NOT NEW. You have the right mindset but YOUR TERMINOLOGY is a bit off.

OPENERS are referred to as SUBJECT LINES........your name and or online body language is YOUR HEADLINE. THE BAIT is your subject line, the HOOK is your email enticement which should include congruence follow through, a challenge, a tease, and a call to action .

Second email (her response) is the INFO EXTRACTION phase.

I am always interested in new virtual openers, and cool new emails.

Do keep in mind NOT ALL NET SITES ARE ALIKE.........which means not all openers/emails will work on all sites.

You also don't list stats/specifics/target selections (which women would most likely to respond to certain emails).

Keep up the great work and get more specific.
 

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SetzerSky said:
Typical defeatist attitudes. I've seen perfectly unattractive guys seduce completely beautiful girls online. Is it rare? Yes. But it happens.
I've also seen a squirrel attack the sh*t out of a cat. Is it rare? Yes. But it happens.

Instead of trying all the stupid little things like this that require massive amounts of time, with little to gain its best to stick to what works. Real life.
 

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Duffdog said:
Are the girls attractive? If not, it doesn't matter how many messages you get. I get messaged all the time from 5-6's on POF-- who cares.
Girls never send me the first message. My profile is very sparse and doesn't have a picture, why would they make first contact? That means I only msg girls that I choose, and yes I generally prefer attractive ones.
 
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