"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting the girl who is already taken

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So theres this girl I've been introduced to through a mutal friend, she's hard to figure out which is one of the main factors leading to this attraction. We have a lot in common and both our longest relationships have been 3 months long so we share the same outlook in terms of getting bored easily with bf/gfs.

Anyway she's with this guy whos an absolute loser from how she describes him, I mean beyond AFC. She calls his behaviour "emo"

She got her friend to chat me up and see how "easy" I was the other day, I passed the ***** test and told her she'd have to work harder for some of this. Then she got her friend to check my "availability"

I want to pursue this.. but I have a gut feeling that she might dissapoint me if I go through the trouble of breaking them up. Shes not happy in the relationship if its not obvious btw

What are your thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In the past 24 hours i have seen three threads ask basicly the same question. What is wrong with you people.

Ninja out
 
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I dont live on this message board and dont really care about the other threads. I posted this because I thought there may be guys out there who have been in similar situations before that could offer advice

But it looks like I'm alone on this one..
 
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Well guess what there is guys out there in simmilar situations. Thats why you should try doing a search instead of asking a question that gets aske 3 or 4 times a day.

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Who the **** made you forum police, pumpkin?

I've read the other threads and my situation is different, you cant give universal advice on a topic and expect it to work for everyone

But fukcit asking for advice here is worse than asking a female
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There was a post that got a few replies its still here. About girlfriend stealing and how the girl is happy in the relationship. Almost exactly like your situation.

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What? the girl is NOT happy in my situation

I'm just hesitent because if she's into me while she's still with this loser, it may mean she's the type of girl who will cheat in the future
 
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Stop farting around, talking to her friends and about past relationships and just ask her out.
That will eliminate all the fluff you are experiencing.

Never ever ever ever listen to what they say - go by what they do - she may say her BF is blah blah but he is the one fvcking her 1 hour after talking to you.
 
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