"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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English_Bloke

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So im with a girl and we are stuck in the friend zone. I like her and I know this can be a sweet relationship. I have had some ideas to break out of it and I want to see if you people have some better suggestions.

-Some sort of spontanious (sp?) kiss, would definitly break the friend barrier but im not sure how to execute that - arckward if she refuses and then our friendship goes down the drain.

-Valentines Day is coming up and Its perfect to show any love for her, what do you think? A dozen roses? LOL, that sounds AFC to me but does that sort of thing really work out? She is into the whole gucci and armarni thing so materialistic stuff wont really hit it hard unless I spend 400$ on designer roses.

-Try working on her at a dance, I already dance with her but actually seducing her and then softening her up for kiss like i mentioned above>>>?

So are these ideas good or what? I have a dance tomorrow night, so im getting pumped for making a move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bad idea with Roses. Just tell her that you want a more intimate relationship, and ask her on a date. Make sure she understands it is a date and not just a friendly hang-out.
 
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Yeah roses seemed too over the top. Thing is that I have done kino on all our 'dates' and put my arm round her etc, and I feel that really the only way to progress it is by a kiss...
 
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