"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tony-montana

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* sunday morning (4am), jan 13 *

i'm gonna do the opposite of everything i've seen here just to test something with a girl i've currently been talking to who received my number online from someone who hates me. she decided to call me and ever since that night we have been in contact by phone or internet.

(apprently she has a bf "i dunno whats going on with us" as she said - probably a lie)

she's young and i don't care if nothing comes of it... i am just curious to see if anything happens with the way i have been handling this...

so anyway, we have been texting each other almost everyday... sometimes it goes for an hour back and forth. sometimes she even gets a bit horny by the looks because she keeps saying she wants me bad or she asks me if i am rubbing myself (cause i said i was watching a movie) and she asked if it was porn... i haven't called her once. she's called me over 8 times in the past week. it is now 4am and she called me about an hour ago, twice. after the first phone call she was telling me she wants me... she called again, we spoke for 20 minutes. i've asked her a couple of times about us catching up, getting to know each other, but she plays it the typical way saying "yeah." or other times she says; "maybe." maybe she just doesn't want me thinking she's a s!ut and she'll just meet anyone off the internet. anyway, i know she's into me in some way... even though we haven't met yet.

she loves listening to my voice, as she said that i have a hot voice. she's staying with her cousin with her family for a week... then going back to school. so it's a little tricky getting this one to catch up. hopefully she will stop being chicken and agree to meet before the school holidays are over.

so basically all that i've said is "AFC" according to everyone on here. but i'm just doing a little test to see how this goes. i actually did all this because i WANTED to.. i enjoy texting people.. all night even. i don't believe in this don't text or get off the phone within five minute crap. if someone likes someone, then that won't matter. i'm sick of playing silly games with silly rules. i'm just gonna do what i feel like with this girl.

if i lose, i lose. if i win, well cool... at least you guys know that what i did scored me a girl. this might entertain you and you might think im the stupidest moron on earth but i'm really bored atm and i'm actually having fun with all this.

i'll keep you updated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tony-montana

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* monday morning (2:50am), jan 14 *


suprisingly no calls no texts. nothing. perhaps she was waiting to see if i would miss her and text her. i am quite sure today she will text me.
 

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It never hurts to field test different methods. Just remember, because something works on the first time, doesn't mean it always will though or just because something fails the first time, doesn't mean it always will either.

Good luck.
 

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GL but in my experience texting should be used very sparingly, in response to her texts, and never in place of a phone call. Are you and her in high school? because after that texting should not be the main tool you use.

Watch out for a rapidly declining IL if you are texting/ talking on the phone all night.
 

tony-montana

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The Inside Man said:
GL but in my experience texting should be used very sparingly, in response to her texts, and never in place of a phone call. Are you and her in high school? because after that texting should not be the main tool you use.

Watch out for a rapidly declining IL if you are texting/ talking on the phone all night.
i'm not in school. let's just say i'm older than her :)

by the way i have scored a few girls by texting, talking online and on the phone for hours. my last couple girlfriends were both from online. it's not always a failure. it does work out... like i said it shouldn't matter as long as you both like each other.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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