I'm about to give up hope on her. I've seriously read everything there is on here. Does anyone have or heard of the magic of making up videos? I like some of the guys videos and I think I'm going to try them. Here are the viedos if you havent seen them www.get-your-ex-back.com
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Getting the Ex back?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Igetit!
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Well maybe you should give up on her.jd1828 said:
You say that you want to get your ex back,but that's ALL you've said.
You're asking for help,but you haven't provided ANY information about you and this girl. We don't know.....
who broke up with who...
why the relationship ended...
how long you two were together...
how long the relationship has been over with...
if you've already tried to get her back or not
etc,etc,etc.
You've got to give some info to get some info. I mean we could just say,"Yeah dude,go for it. Go out there and get her.",but we'd be much more helpful if we knew EXACTLY what we're dealing with.
SoldMySoul
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I have a better idea. Why don't you give me the money you are planning on spending on this product and I will give you better advice.
Bluntmaster
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She's not coming back.
The end.
The end.
unless you broke up with her, or it was because of some mistake you have made, all you can do is leave her alone and work on yourself.
I just saw and then talked to my old roomate who is now with back with her ex, guess what, he broke it off with her and she was still in love with him while going with her new boyfriend to thailand. When she came back her ex said he had been thinking a lot and wanted her back, she obliged and her now newly ex boyfriend freaked out, calling her friends, work, even her mom and talking sh!t about her and what not and guess what, she "lost all respect for him"
Women will date a man just because they dont have anything better. but thats a side note.
women will only want you back when you make no effort to get them back, or if you dumped them. those are your best chances.
I just saw and then talked to my old roomate who is now with back with her ex, guess what, he broke it off with her and she was still in love with him while going with her new boyfriend to thailand. When she came back her ex said he had been thinking a lot and wanted her back, she obliged and her now newly ex boyfriend freaked out, calling her friends, work, even her mom and talking sh!t about her and what not and guess what, she "lost all respect for him"
Women will date a man just because they dont have anything better. but thats a side note.
women will only want you back when you make no effort to get them back, or if you dumped them. those are your best chances.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Well the No Contact approach works pretty good i've heard. Ive never personally tried it but i think there's a big post in the tips or archive section that can help you out.
Paintballguy
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+1Bluntmaster said:
how about finding some new piece of ass instead of worrying about an ex?