Ok, here's the deal.....this girl that I really like is engaged to this guy that i've known for a pretty long time. The problem is, I dont really like this guy and I dont know why she does. He treats her like garbage every time i see them. Last week, a bunch of people hung out and they were there. She kept leaving her man and coming over to talk to me. I catch her staring at me a lot. Thing is, i just dont know how to go about getting her if she is planning on marrying this clown. I gotta save her!
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maranathaman
Master Don Juan
You can ask her out on a date and see if she goes for it.
Chances are though that she's just flirting with you cause it strokes her ego. Most women who get treated like crap by their man, almost never leave the guy until years of abuse.
So I would ask her out once, but if she doesn't date you, then I wouldn't waste anymore time on her, cause she's a lost cause in that case.
Chances are though that she's just flirting with you cause it strokes her ego. Most women who get treated like crap by their man, almost never leave the guy until years of abuse.
So I would ask her out once, but if she doesn't date you, then I wouldn't waste anymore time on her, cause she's a lost cause in that case.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
JD,
There are a million single chicks out there - This chick is engaged - so leave her alone - run don't walk from her.
Your wasting your emotional time and energy on this b#tch.
Go get a single chick.
There are a million single chicks out there - This chick is engaged - so leave her alone - run don't walk from her.
Your wasting your emotional time and energy on this b#tch.
Go get a single chick.
Kineti[C]harm
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The only time I met an engaged chick it was really easy, now it's to be said she was only 19 but still... We were at a party that a female friend of me invited me to and she also invited a male friend and his fiancee (Yes the engaged couple is there...). Throughout the night we were sitting all around a table (engaged chick on my right and her fiance to the right of her). Only thing I did was have fun, be confident, be really ****y and also be hilarious. Digging the music, by the end of the night we were making out in the bathroom and 2 days later i got an SMS telling me she was inlove with me 
She was resting on my shoulder and kinoing me right infront of her fiancee. Was freaky.
Why did this happen? I was everything her BF was not. I was confident, funny, freespirited, loved trance and dancing etc etc. This usually works on most girls that is taken or whatever. Be yourself which hopefully is everything her BF is not and hopefully something EXCITING. Mostly if a taken chick is giving you signs of interest or simular she really likes you from my experience.
She was resting on my shoulder and kinoing me right infront of her fiancee. Was freaky.Why did this happen? I was everything her BF was not. I was confident, funny, freespirited, loved trance and dancing etc etc. This usually works on most girls that is taken or whatever. Be yourself which hopefully is everything her BF is not and hopefully something EXCITING. Mostly if a taken chick is giving you signs of interest or simular she really likes you from my experience.
elvis aint dead yet
Senior Don Juan
I'm sorry but if I were at the same party with my fiance and she was flirting with another guy.
I'd either start flirting with another girl or speak up.
And the fact you hooked up with her in the bathroom at the same part her fiancee was at, well my friend, I'm glad the people you hang out with are a bunch of panises.
Because if that was a party I went to and it was either my GF or fiancee hooking up, I'd throw you out a two story building and then continue to pummel you.
If it was a buddy of mines GF or fiancee, i'd do the same damn thing and I'd inform him.
If it was just some girl I or a friend of mine were dating, who cares. But engaged, come on now, Either your friends and everybody you hang out with are pansies or this "ENGAGEMENT" is just something this girl told everybody, like many 19 year olds do, and it's really not true.
I'd either start flirting with another girl or speak up.
And the fact you hooked up with her in the bathroom at the same part her fiancee was at, well my friend, I'm glad the people you hang out with are a bunch of panises.
Because if that was a party I went to and it was either my GF or fiancee hooking up, I'd throw you out a two story building and then continue to pummel you.
If it was a buddy of mines GF or fiancee, i'd do the same damn thing and I'd inform him.
If it was just some girl I or a friend of mine were dating, who cares. But engaged, come on now, Either your friends and everybody you hang out with are pansies or this "ENGAGEMENT" is just something this girl told everybody, like many 19 year olds do, and it's really not true.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.