Getting the attention of the sunshine girl

[D97]

borderline flirtacious was perhaps a bit misleading.

She is flirtacious, but in a different way to what we're used to seeing.

As I said, I've encountered a true attention wh0re before. Saying "I love you!!!", kissing, hugging, sitting on laps constantly (as someone above also outlined) is not natural behaviour for a women to perform to every stranger of the opposite sex she meets.

Now, this girl - the one in question - hasn't exhibited any of that. She is not an extreme example of the case, at least not in kineasthetics. She is however crowded by guys most of the time she is in public, and that is a stumbling block which the other girls around her don't have.

That's what makes her different. That's what makes her more difficult.

 

[DiamondMind]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
Don't complicate shyt and I think it's time that we start taking responsiblity for our own hang-ups and stop blaming "Sunshine Girls" and "attention wh0res" for our own fvcked up (mis)perceptions.

Very well said.

The best thing any guy can learn from this board is to take accountabitlity for thier actions.

And to the original poster/question, if you gotta ask how, well, ummm, good luck. Either she will be into you, or she won't be.

When guys try with women like a Sunshine Girl and she is friendly with them but won't date them, they say she is a b*tch, attention ho', etc. Grow up, and don't blame them. I see this all the time. "She flirted with me, laughed at my jokes, but won't give me her number, whine, cry, moan". Some guys just can't handle a friendly woman.

I read here somewhere "If a woman is into you, she will make it very easy to 'get' her. If she is not, no amount of trying will ever get her". Period....

 

[DiamondMind]

Originally posted by D97

As I said, I've encountered a true attention wh0re before. Saying "I love you!!!", kissing, hugging, sitting on laps constantly (as someone above also outlined) is not natural behaviour for a women to perform to every stranger of the opposite sex she meets.

Yes, so have I met this type of woman. Many times.

It kills me to see guys try to get that kinda woman, and, when she chews them up and spits them out, tar the entire female race as b*itches, etc. bla bla bla.

Only you make your own choices; don't blame the attention wh0re, just pity her, and choose better.

 

[Revlis]

I know an attention wh0re and I enjoy hanging out with her on the very rare occassion but she just reeks of insecurities at the end of the day. She tries and hides them with knowing as many people as she can and labelling herself as Ms Popular.

It's a shame her so called boyfriend doesn't see this since he can get someone so much better than her! Fun girl but I wouldn't trust her with my life!

 

[xblitz44x]

"Girl A, B and C all like you the same and are equal 8's.

- Which Girl, A, B or C do you ask for the number?

- Does it make any difference if you just met her or have known her for years?

- Which Girl, A, B or C will screw you first?

- Which Girl, A, B or C makes a better girlfriend?

- What approach do you use for Girl A, B or C?

For everyone who thinks there is no difference for any of the questions, sorry you are just wrong.

Agreed. Nobody was arguing against that. The problem is that we mistake just being friendly, and social, for "flirting and trying to get attention". Especially if we can't get with them ourselves. It's like a way to keep our ego's in check and it's starting to get weak. We'll never know if a girl is trying to flirt with everybody, or if she actually DOES want to go home with us or not. It's irrelevant; that's **** that's going on in HER mind that we will never figure out 100%. All we can do is make sure our game is tight and that we are comfortable and mature enough to see things for what they are.

Christ, it's pathetic because the agenda on this site and mASF is to get everybody to like you for "social proof", and paun women off to help you get hotter chicks. Yet when girls do that all of a sudden we start getting crabby and moody like big fvcking babies and cry "ATTENTION WH0RE"~!

 

[Revlis]

Hehe yeah blitz. If you are wondering if she likes you or it's her nature to be flirty etc, just ask her out! Then you'll know if she's being flirty for a reason with you. I think someone has already said this.

 

[D97]

"I don't chase em, I replace em" -Notorious B.I.G.

I like that.