"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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suaveplayer

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ok i think beginning to dig this one chick, except shes not like the others

she seems genuinely friendly to everyone. shes not flirty, but shes always happy, and laughing with everyone. now she has given me a lot of IOIs (such as saying that she has grown fond of me), but i cant figure out if they are "i want you" IOIs or the IOIs she gives to all her friends (trust me she is really friendly to everyone).

anyway, at the beginning i just c+f a lot and teased her and had a lot of fun with her. but now im beginning to like her, like i could really see her as my gf. i want to tell/show her that im more than interested. how would i show this type of girl, becuase she would just interpret every move as more friendliness. should i just come right out???

thanks in advance guys. you guys rock
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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suaveplayer

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yes ive been getting that. so maybe bring on the flirting a little more?
should i be more direct? and how (meaning that when i ask her to hang out how should i hint that its more than buddies getting together)?
 
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