"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's up guys?

Finally! I have been sarging like crazy. I just don't care anymore.. I was coming out of blockbuster last week, and this cute woman popped put of her car. So I immediately turned around and introduced myself, didn't think twice.

Just made small talk and got her #. Then ofcourse she didn't answer the phone, but texted me. What is it with women and texts these days? Most of them I meet just want to text message all day and night.

I haven't even talked to this woman on the phone yet, and we have a date. I set it all up through text message. Who cares anymore? If that's how they want to communicate then so be it.

So we were chatting, and I made a typo. I meant to say "I'm looking for the right one"

What I typed was "I'm looking the the tight one"

LOL! She got a huge kick out of this and started telling me "it's ok if you are looking for a tight one"

And then she wants to meet Saturday night. Who's going to get laid this weekend?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who's going to get laid this weekend?
me tonight going round this girls house, been seeing her for two weeks.:cool:
 
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i can't believe you entertain texts as she ignores your phone calls. and bud, that little "tight one" reply she made means jack.
 

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sarging like crazy is awesome and fun even if u dont get any
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't count your chickens just yet, but good luck.
 
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wjh said:
i can't believe you entertain texts as she ignores your phone calls. and bud, that little "tight one" reply she made means jack.

Who cares? If they want to talk through text, so be it. Doesn't matter any more.

And it doesn't mean anything when I said "tight" (meant to say "right") and she starts laughing and telling me it's "OK if I am looking for tight?"

Ok, sounds to me like she's horny and that matters a lot.
 

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Don't count your chickens. You won't know until it happens.

Are you going to tone down your game? Of course not. So if you lay her, you earned it. If not, who cares?
 

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Yes, I've set up dates n sh!t through text. Even though I perfer for the phone it works anyways. Hope everything goes well on your date!
 

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Amusing typo, but there's a whale of a difference between setting up a date and sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know, but she just seems super horny I can tell. Plus she is 10 years older than me, and I usually do well with the older women.

Plus we are meeting 5 minutes from her apartment.

Plus she told me she is worried I am going to flake on her. She asked me to text her if I decide to "ditch" her. I told her don't worry, I'll call her not text if that happens. LOL!
 

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Why's everyone so negative? You did a daytime cold approach with a #close and deserve props for that. Who cares about texting and not talking on the phone? If it gets you the date who wants to talk on a phone anyway? I'd say there's a good chance you could get a lay out of this, nothings ever quaranteed, but as good as any.
 
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ketostix said:
Why's everyone so negative? You did a daytime cold approach with a #close and deserve props for that. Who cares about texting and not talking on the phone? If it gets you the date who wants to talk on a phone anyway? I'd say there's a good chance you could get a lay out of this, nothings ever quaranteed, but as good as any.

The guys in this forum are always sipping on the haterade.

I'm just going to accept that 80% of women these days want to conversate using text message. Might as well use it to my advantage instead of b!tching about it.
 

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The guys in this forum are always sipping on the haterade.

I'm just going to accept that 80% of women these days want to conversate using text message. Might as well use it to my advantage instead of b!tching about it.
Or maybe most woman never had a guy who is man enough to talk over the phone. So their use to the whole texting thing. Who knows either way like others said. It dont matter....
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Or maybe most woman never had a guy who is man enough to talk over the phone. So their use to the whole texting thing. Who knows either way like others said. It dont matter....

I usually try and call first. That's when they don't pick up the phone and the texting starts. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong.

It just happened again. I called this girl (haven't even talked to her on the phone yet). She texts me 20 minutes later asking if we are "still on" tomorrow.

I wanted to say "check your voicemail you supid b!tch".. and I did.. but I left out the insult.

Also, when we met I never asked this girl out. I told her to take me out and buy me some drinks at a bar she likes and she agreed. This strategy is also golden because 9 times out of 10 they will pick a bar close to where they live. And I'm going to tell her to show me her place.

This stuff about being a ****y jerk is great for getting some action.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't see anything wrong with texting. I'd rather text because I can't stand talking on the phone, nor do I want to be stuck on the phone. I've been successful with texting several times. It suits me just fine.

So, I say do it if you want to do it, but I wouldn't set up a date through text messaging without building some rapport first. A lot of guys will ask via text messaging right out of the blue and expect some sort of answer.
 

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Man they text like man in my neck of the woods too...

I get all sorts of flirty and or dirty messages may as well use it, it's not going anywhere.

I've set up so many dates via text it's retarded, I'm quite comfortable with it by now. Soon it will be a special gesture to just call a ho.
 
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I'm back from the date.

It took about 30 minutes to get some action in the booth. I just went in for a peck, and this woman choked me with her tongue.

After an hour, I got bored and told her I had to go. I didn't really push to get sex tonight. I did mention to go to her place but she wasn't very receptive to that idea, so I didn't mention it again. I think I could have gotten the tour of her bedroom if I tried a little harder but I felt lazy today.

She could fill a nice spot in my rotation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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