"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting Sexual

Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I have a few problems. I can get dates with really nice girls etc.

However I am nervous when dating them as I am a virgin etc. I'm 16 by the way.

I just don't no how to make the interaction sexual, how to get a kiss even or anything.

Will somebody give me a hand please.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hughman

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This thread is more suited to the HS forum.

Have you not read the DJ Bible? The answers are there.

To summarise it for you: kino, subtle sexual reference in conversation and then more pronounced reference, depending on the situation.
 

909pua

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I have a few problems. I can get dates with really nice girls etc.

However I am nervous when dating them as I am a virgin etc. I'm 16 by the way.

I just don't no how to make the interaction sexual, how to get a kiss even or anything.

Will somebody give me a hand please.

if you want to emit a sexual energy, don't touch them when they expect it, touch them when they don't expect it, tease them, joke at them, and don't comply to any of their requests...
 
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