"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting rusty+ field report

NSX-R

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Today I thought to start again with cold approaches. Back in the summer i was very successful with them but since then I approached zero chicks.
I thought it was about time to turn on the PUA machine. It was also a good chance cause today there was a new club opening and many chicks were around.

First try. A blonde and brunette both hb7. I was feeling hesitant but I remembered how much of a big fish I am and also that I'm a smooth talker. Said a Hi , asked the chicks for their name and where they were heading to. They seemed positive but for a weird reason i stalled and had no idea what to say. They felt the awkwardness aswell and they just left. I was very angry but for a weird reason I felt very nice.

2nd try. 2 blondes hb8 and 9 . The best looking ones i saw that night. I was sitting with some friends and some other plates on a table. I went up without hesitation and my friend asked me were i was going. I told him " going to pick up those chicks ", he said if he can join me as well( he had just broke up from a ltr which was his first one )and thought let's help this guy how to pick up some chicks . These chicks were very well dressed and classy( exactly my taste) , since I'm always well dressed always to impress ,it was a big boost for me . Approached them and told them " 2 ladies like you need some gentlemen by them ( I know lame pick up line ,don't try it at home) they both smiled and responded with " we do not have time for this " and i responded with " well.. me neither so let's exchange our numbers for some other time " , they both stopped, gave them my cell phone and both wrote their numbers. I have no idea if that's their real phone numbers but I'm gonna test them in 2-3 days.

3rd try. Late night approach a blonde hb7,5 . Went at her with the plan to end into ONS with her. Approached her , introduced myself and suggested if she would like to follow mr for a drink. Went to a bar not so far away and I tried to intervie her about her place like how far away it is and stuff( normal procedure for ons)when she detonated a bomb. She had already a child and she was in her 4 month of pregnancy. The father of the child that she was pregnant with didn't wanted to recognize it or something like ithat Big big red flag . In that point i paid the bill snd i just started running away. That was a big turn off.


To conclude, I think i have become a bit rusty but I'm glad that my game is still there. It was a chilly night , had some fantastic time with my friends till i met the last chick . I'm thinking about it and I'm glad that I escaped from her. I guess , the longer you live, the more weirder things you are going to see.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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**** it. Keep approaching
 
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