"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Getting rid of dandruf
- Thread starter Vronski
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
xyzzy
Senior Don Juan
Both my acne and dandruff over time went away when I got older. Personally I think it was because I gave up fast food, fried food, french fries, and all that oily gunk.
Wash your hair at least twice a day, keep your hair short, get out in the sun more should help as well.
Monkey
Master Don Juan
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
Dandruff has two causes. One is naturally dry skin that flakes. Your scalp is just like your skin, it needs moisture. Wash your hair only when you really need to. See if you can find a moisturizing shampoo that will moisturize your scalp. Or else, use lotion on your scalp before bed (may make your hair look oily.)
The other cause is the fungus P Ovali. That's the only thing those dandruff shampoos are good for. And since yours persists, I think you just have a dry scalp. So keep it moisturized like you would your skin.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Use Nizoral a few times a week and then Head and SHoulders the other days.
Nizoral will kill the fungus, the others will slow down the cell growth. It is a two phased attack!
Kanadasutra
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In my case, i found the cause of my problem. My scalp was burned and irritated by the gel i was using in my hair (containing alcool and perfume).
So now i use product without alcool and i have no more problems. Same thing with the shaving cream i was using.
But there is no way i will go for .5 beer!
[This message has been edited by Kanadasutra (edited 11-17-2002).]
Originally posted by Vronski:
I want to get rif of dandruff for good. Head&shoulders is liquid crap.
What do you recommend???
head and shoulders works good on me, but im not sure how to get rid of it perminantley
recently ive been putting olive oil in my hair and leaving it in overnight, my hair has been getting much softer
xyzzy
Senior Don Juan
after reading up on it its either a fungus or dry scalp.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.