"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting rid of acne scars!!

Ken785

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im sure many of you on here have had or had acne before. my problem is...i broke out huge last year all over my face...couldnt get rid of my acne till months later till i tried extra strength proactiv...then it left me with all these acne scars!!

ive tried that neutregena acne scar crap, doesnt work, im on this vitamin e stuff that i rub on my face every morning with some mousteriser....hopefullt in a few months theyll help clear it...

for those of you in my situation or were in....are there any ways in helping the scars or am i stuck with them unless a get surgery?? what are the risks of that and how much does it costs?? thanks...ken.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmmm, you may have to have surgery. Although alot of bbers use accutane when they get acne from using gear (and I mean fu<king SEVERE acne). But i'm not sure if it gets rid of scarring, i'll ask around for you mate.
 

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What type of scars? The red marks, or the deep scars that look like chicken pox marks?
 

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I had some acne scars and when I get some sun and a decent tan they seem to go away. This is the red marks I am referring to not the pot hole looking things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Eternal
What type of scars? The red marks, or the deep scars that look like chicken pox marks?
theyre like red spots that a few black dots that look like freakles... they especially light up when im drunk...i hate them...any advice?
 

Ken785

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Originally posted by alvatore
Hmmm, you may have to have surgery. Although alot of bbers use accutane when they get acne from using gear (and I mean fu<king SEVERE acne). But i'm not sure if it gets rid of scarring, i'll ask around for you mate.

how did you know i was on gear?? and yes that is the reason why i got them : (.
 

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There was a procedure I heard of years ago. I mean YEARS, ago, I hope salvatore can find somebody who knows. God knows, it'll be a miracle, if I find somebody in my town.

Tough call on the "gear" as always, it's an injection of hormones. Hormones, specifically I can't remember(stopped doing the research years ago when I lost my fear), create the imbalance in your system that triggers acne.

Wish I could help you more, I've got the potholes like NYtomb calls em, I don't even need to be drunk;)

lol, I am so scared of this part of the forum.
 

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i have this potholes scars too

I don't have that many of them, but i'll still love to know how i can get rid of it.

If anybody could help i'll appreciate it
 

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Originally posted by Pilo
i have this potholes scars too

I don't have that many of them, but i'll still love to know how i can get rid of it.

If anybody could help i'll appreciate it
Do you get really fast growing, thick, pubiclike, black hairs groing from the scars like I do? I would like to hear the same thing.

Does anybody else out there know how to cure my bacne? pills never worked, and I get them in the most painful of places.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i heard tanning for backne works! try tanning like twice a week. i think i have to spend some money to see what a derma says...
 

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Oh snap, there's two tanning rooms in town, and a massage parlour. All the girls tell me I have to get a professional massage, they say I'm knotted all over. My ex boss said I've got a lot of dirty chi, and guys who respected me gave me a rub down could tell how rough I am on my body. Thanks for mentioning.

I burn VERY easily though, could be my body isn't producing enough Vitamin D. Is there any food I can eat that would prepare me for that?

Thanks for the info man, you made me happy:D
 

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hey did u guys notice thick facial hair from steriods?
couse my facial hair is thick as **** and it grows all kinds quick
 
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