"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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getting rid of a bad reputaion

Bryce556

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well i sorta kinda have a bad rep with almost everyone in my school and all the girls. just from my past afc actions and stuff. people think im a nerd creepy weird etc. how do i get rid of this? just changeing as what ive been doing dosent seem to help
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bryce556 said:
well i sorta kinda have a bad rep with almost everyone in my school and all the girls. just from my past afc actions and stuff. people think im a nerd creepy weird etc. how do i get rid of this? just changeing as what ive been doing dosent seem to help

Lift weights
Create a larger social circle which doesnt involve people from your college (e.g. join a few clubs)
Start to smarten up your appearence
Start to talk to more people
Read some Seduction e-books (I'd recommend 'pimpin for dummies')

Once you get started on all these, then im sure its only a matter of time before people realise how much you have changed and may start to give you a chance.
Best of luck my friend! :up:
 

dave007

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I had been in the exact situation as you are...all you need to do is show the people the new you...what people gather of you at first is very hard t ochange...it takes time and a patience of a grasshopper is just gonna let you down...develop the kind of personality you want to have..like being cool and stuff...and then use it when interacting with people..soon people are going to see you as a COOL dude...trust me on this one...
 
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