Getting Revenge (need advice)

[BlackJackal]

hank... ur a douche... end of story

for the rest of you guys, thanks. i appreciate the advice. i have to admit though, i really didn't think you guys would say walk away. i understand that when u break up with a girl or next her, that the best thing to do is walk away and live well etc etc... but does that rule apply for the guy aswell?

if a guy stole your car or your money, would u just walk away? or would u punish him for it? (and i know some of u are gonna say that a woman is not the same thing as a possession... but in this case she is...cause he knew she was with me, so as far as he's concerned, she's my property...)

But a car cost/is worth more than a womans life. Besides, no one can steal your girlfriend. She gives herself away, unlike your car.

 

[spider_007]

give her a little time, and then do the things you did to get her in the first place.

 

[amethyst]

If you are intent on getting revenge instead of focusing your energy on a master plan to ruin his life... just beat the **** out of him or you could use your frustration to take up a new hobby and improve your game, and get better girl than your ex... Trust me brooding is not sexy.

 

[Mental]

Hey guys

This is my first post here, here's the situation:

This guy who i thought was my friend (he's a total AFC) stole my girlfriend (who's a total Attention Wh0re). Now, i'm not bitter about the breakup, she was an AW, i treated her pretty poorly and i was looking to breakup with her anyway (but i have to admit the sex was GOOD!!). Anyway, what I'm pissed about, is that this guy stole her from me - knowing that me and her were together and supposedly claiming to be my friend. I even confronted him about it, before he and her hooked up... i told him that me and her were together and that he should back-off... he said he would (he pretty much lied to my face).

it's been about a month and he's totally in love with her already... completely AFC. i haven't spoken to her since we broke up, and i've moved on - new women, more gym time etc etc - but i'm still pissed at this 'friend' of mine.

i wanna get revenge on this guy. 1) for lying to me. 2) for stealing my booty ho by being 'nice' to her 3) for breaking the cardinal rule of bro's before ho's.

now, i was planning on getting revenge on him by hooking back up with her (the AW/ my ex/ the girl i've been talking about in this post). i really don't wanna go near her slutty ass ***** again, but i really wanna get back at this guy... lol.

here's where i need some advice... how would you guys go about trying to hook up with with this girl/ex/AW? (please keep in mind, i don't wanna hook up with her because i 'love' her or some ****... i just wanna do it to give this guy a taste of his own medicine).

cheers.

What do you have to be jealous about?

A) Lets see, you claim he's an AFC. So let him be one. 1) He'll either get hurt by being one 2) He'll get the attention ***** to change somehow 3) He will learn how not to be an AFC.

B) Perhaps he's also not as much of an AFC as you think.

I will argue, disagree and fight with people over things I find important/right. But some people, no matter what, still see me as AFC.

One woman thinks I am awesome because I hold up most promises. And I can show integrity and kindness while still being a fairly secure guy.

Another sees me as a complete wimp who doesn't take any risks.

Both know I own my own business. Both know I've been electrocuted more times than I can count. Both know that I hammer nails into my nose or practice with razor blades for entertainment. Both know I perform for a living, in front of hundreds of people. But to one, I'm an interesting guy. To the other, I'm a complete wimp. And up until 3 weeks ago, I treated both the same.

It's perspective.

C) Living well is the best revenge.

D) I think 1 secret to being a DJ is that you avoid jerks, and people who selfishly manipulate others constantly. Why you want to bring yourself down to his or her level is beyond me, and IMHO, not very suave or mature.

 

[vonbock]

Getting revenge. This story sounds familiar to me. I had a close friend who went after a girl I was going out. Played games with me, lied about me to her, and basically just downright backstabbed me. I know its hard in the heat of the moment to think about "live well" like everyone says. I remember when I first found out that he backstabbed me, I couldn't sleep for a week. I know, I am a wuss. It wasn't about the girl but it was aboutt "how can a friend do this to me" He even laughed at me and told me, "yea, yea I backstabbed ya, so what ya going to do about it". Now thinking back, I wish I would have gotten something to calm my mind down so I could sleep. But, the thing that healed everything was time. Not this "live well" " or "don't wate your time" excuses. Its just time for the mind to heal. Thinking back to it, I realise tht I wasted so much time and energy on a girl that I never wound up with. All that time I could have been learning Spanish, runing triathlons, skydiving, piano, and so many other fun things in life rather than figuring out a way to get a guy back. But it is so hard to do when you just found out.

 

[Last Man Standing]

This guy who i thought was my friend (he's a total AFC) stole my girlfriend (who's a total Attention Wh0re). Now, i'm not bitter about the breakup, she was an AW, i treated her pretty poorly and i was looking to breakup with her anyway (but i have to admit the sex was GOOD!!). Anyway, what I'm pissed about, is that this guy stole her from me - knowing that me and her were together and supposedly claiming to be my friend. I even confronted him about it, before he and her hooked up... i told him that me and her were together and that he should back-off... he said he would (he pretty much lied to my face).

it's been about a month and he's totally in love with her already... completely AFC. i haven't spoken to her since we broke up, and i've moved on - new women, more gym time etc etc - but i'm still pissed at this 'friend' of mine.

i wanna get revenge on this guy. 1) for lying to me. 2) for stealing my booty ho by being 'nice' to her 3) for breaking the cardinal rule of bro's before ho's.

now, i was planning on getting revenge on him by hooking back up with her (the AW/ my ex/ the girl i've been talking about in this post). i really don't wanna go near her slutty ass ***** again, but i really wanna get back at this guy... lol.

here's where i need some advice... how would you guys go about trying to hook up with with this girl/ex/AW? (please keep in mind, i don't wanna hook up with her because i 'love' her or some ****... i just wanna do it to give this guy a taste of his own medicine).

cheers.

How do you steal a hor? HUH?????? Did he snatch her from the hor train leaving Las Vegas?

Why blame your "friend" for being a man? Blame the hor for being a hor!!!!

Steal a hor? This is a new phenomena!!!! Hors give themselves freely!!!!!!

Hors are to be pimped and NOT wanted!!!!!!!

 

[Jack McCrack]

Maybe your friend is not an AFC.

Crap happens. One man's trash is another man's treasure.

Looks like you don't know whether this girl is trash or treasure.