This is just a rant. I am completely objective when I say I'm an attractive, witty guy. I can talk to any stranger with no issues wherever. I've approached girls for various reasons, if anything just to kill boredom. But you know what ticks me off? Those sullen, resting b1tchface girls that won't even keep a conversation up. This doesn't shake my confidence, but it boggles my mind man. You're out and you don't wanna talk to people? Sure, maybe you've had a bad day, maybe you got a boyfriend and his love lifts you up where you belong :crackup: , is that a reason for you to act like every other male has the plague? What do you even say to someone behaving so asocially to the opposite gender
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Getting rejected in a night club
- Thread starter Reckoning
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Night clubs are the worst man. Skinnyguy is right - daygame is great in comparison, especially when there's plausible deniability (sitting next to a girl on a plane, being behind her in line at the grocery store, etc)
I barely talk to girls when I'm out clubbing. I dance with them and try to see if I can have a makeout. But other than that, clubs are for you to have FUN ! Talk sh!t with the homies, a few drinks and listening to good beats. If I ended up with a chick cool.
Most girls in the club are not social anyways, this is why they go out with 10 girls and compete with eachother to see who will reject the most guys...
Most girls in the club are not social anyways, this is why they go out with 10 girls and compete with eachother to see who will reject the most guys...
This.badboyjmm said:
Many women use clubbing as a way to go dance while getting an ego boost. Some already have a main dude they are already banging, so most arent there to meet some new guy.
The best approach to take is just enjoy time with your bros. Ive noticed Ive easily met women when Im not too concerned with them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.