This is just a rant. I am completely objective when I say I'm an attractive, witty guy. I can talk to any stranger with no issues wherever. I've approached girls for various reasons, if anything just to kill boredom. But you know what ticks me off? Those sullen, resting b1tchface girls that won't even keep a conversation up. This doesn't shake my confidence, but it boggles my mind man. You're out and you don't wanna talk to people? Sure, maybe you've had a bad day, maybe you got a boyfriend and his love lifts you up where you belong :crackup: , is that a reason for you to act like every other male has the plague? What do you even say to someone behaving so asocially to the opposite gender
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Getting rejected in a night club
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Night clubs are the worst man. Skinnyguy is right - daygame is great in comparison, especially when there's plausible deniability (sitting next to a girl on a plane, being behind her in line at the grocery store, etc)
I barely talk to girls when I'm out clubbing. I dance with them and try to see if I can have a makeout. But other than that, clubs are for you to have FUN ! Talk sh!t with the homies, a few drinks and listening to good beats. If I ended up with a chick cool.
Most girls in the club are not social anyways, this is why they go out with 10 girls and compete with eachother to see who will reject the most guys...
Most girls in the club are not social anyways, this is why they go out with 10 girls and compete with eachother to see who will reject the most guys...
This.badboyjmm said:
Many women use clubbing as a way to go dance while getting an ego boost. Some already have a main dude they are already banging, so most arent there to meet some new guy.
The best approach to take is just enjoy time with your bros. Ive noticed Ive easily met women when Im not too concerned with them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.