Getting rejected a lot

[NeedToImprove]

even today when i was in the mall with a friend making eye contact with all the girls there, got rejected a lot, thinking of what may went wrong

im 30 but some years ago i used to get eye contact, smiles, lots of stuff, come on i know im not that ****in horrible, ive seen lots of worse guys i have 2 friends that i think are below me in looks and they get lots of *****, one of them is 35 and the other 25, one of them is this one

and the other one

this one is me

dont think i was too happy in the first one but it was just for u guys to have an idea
if they get girls why dont i? i was even cheated on by a guy that doesnt even pluck his middle eyebrows for christ sake...

im trying hard, but i only get rejections either online or real life.really need a boost up, a slap in my face, whatever but somehow the dj bible just isnt make sense anymore, when i try hard to follow the rules and i get 0 results.... not good, not good at all

 

[the12thplanet]

you look pretty good, and thats my honest opinion.

my suggestions would be

1. be clean shaven, maybe a lil goatee or whatever if you want but keep it real short, your beard makes you look like a terrorist.

2. work on your dress style a lil bit, its def not bad but it could be a bit better.

3. the biggest thing i think from these pictures is SMILE, in most of these pics your not smiling, and in the one that you are it looks a bit more like a creepy sneer. practice a good charming nonthreatening smile.

but dont lose faith in yourself, no matter what.

 

[young_gun]

Don't beat yourself up. You're much more likely to be "rejected" than not. And when you were rejected, did it hurt? I doubt it.

 

[NeedToImprove]

well i was just comparing me to the first 2 guys who are my friends and hangout with me, those 2 gets lots of girls and that makes me kinda wonder what am i doing wrong ya know

@young gun well if it was by lets say 1-20 girls,but think of getting rejected as a cycle that goes on and on, it leaves me fustrated wouldnt you be too?

 

[young_gun]

I'd probably get frustrated too, but therein lies your problem. I think you're putting too much importance on this. The first step to becoming the great catch is to believe that you are. When you believe this, it just radiates.

 

[penkitten]

do you ever watch those king of the hill reruns? why just the other night gio and i were watching one in which boomhower takes bobby to the shoe store to pick up women. he must have hit on 40 women and got slapped in the face until one finally smiled at him and showed some interest back.
bobby kept saying, when are you going to give up mr boomhower?
boomhower just says "it aint nothing but a thing."

i recommend you start watching some king of the hill reruns and relax and have a good laugh at how funny they are.

 

[Juan_Man]

You're better looking than both of your friends by a landslide. There must be something else going awry.

 

[theSpeculator]

If you really wanna know. IMO, you have "boring" eyes. I can tell just by looking at them that you probably have a dull personality.

The first guy got a more exciting eye. I bet he probably got a more exciting personality too.

The second guy got those soft baby eyes that some girls like.

 

[zip]

Your 30. The mall is for teenagers. Try looking somewhere else like a classy bar or something.