"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting Ready to try Rugby: Journal

Yusaark

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I was always scared to play rugby in high school. I was always an artsy kid. of course because I gave up competitive soccer for artsy music stuff I started gaining weight. after a bunch of scares involving deaths where family members were not in good enough physical health to recover from the simple surgeries that could have saved their lives, I decided to learn a lot. I was 5'10" and I was pushing 190 lbs. I have read loads of mens health magazines, gone through all sorts of ebooks, read all sorts of books, learned a lot about sports nutrition, read things from full body movements to acid-alkaline balance.

I got myself into better shape. I am now 6'0" (I grew a little this summer) and I lost a lot of fat over these two years (I went down to 174 lbs but a lot more of it is muscle now).

I went to my first rugby practice yesterday and was dizzy after getting tackled for the second time. what I realized is my training was making me healthier but I needed to push myself to a point where I was psychologically uncomfortable if I was going 1. get an athletic body, 2. succeed in such a psychologically challenging sport, and 3. be able to take on extreme mental and physical challenges in my life.

So now I'm going to take everything I know and apply it. I'm writing this because: I need to commit myself to you guys, I will probably need some support, and hopefully some people will take some information from the little tidbits I've learned along the way.

today is saturday and I start workouts on monday.

See you then
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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Yusaark said:
I have read loads of mens health magazines, gone through all sorts of ebooks, read all sorts of books, learned a lot about sports nutrition, read things from full body movements to acid-alkaline balance.
better get ready to unlearn 90% of that then. :D good luck!
 

mintxx

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Hell yeah. As it happens the rugby league grand final is today! Go Melbourne! edit: we cop a 40-nil thrashing, end of an era. the biggest gf margin in history. think i jinxed the fukker.

At first I thought 'pushing 190 lbs' meant your bench press and I was like 'hey that's ok for a beginner'. Anyway this is a good site to start with.

My tip: glutes and abs. activate and tighten them early on and you'll avoid problems later.
 
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Bloke

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mintxx said:
Hell yeah. As it happens the rugby league grand final is today! Go Melbourne! edit: we cop a 40-nil thrashing, end of an era. the biggest gf margin in history. think i jinxed the fukker.
LOL. Didn't see that one coming. I'm a St George fan so I'm happy for Melbourne to take our biggest Grand Final loss away from us. :cheer:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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