"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting past the sh*t test

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Long story short she texts me 7 times before i wake up. Calls 3 times in an hour, then acts like it never happened. I set down the rules but never mentioned anything about calling me all the time or texting. I know she has BPD, shes on medication and and has a kid who is adorable. Im looking at this for all around experience. How can I get past this **** test because all these calls and txts are a bit annoying.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BPD.... Are you serious? You might as well start taking anti-depressants already. Don't go there.
 
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BPD AND a single mom???

This is how you get through this...

You DON'T. Value your sanity.
 
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