"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting past LMR

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im getting better at cold approach and twice already this semester ive taken a girl back to her place right after meeting her. ive gotten heavy lmr both times even though we were at the point of laying together. any advice on how to get past this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think we need more details about what you did and how far you got before she put up resistance.

I think the best foreplay is lying on top of her kissing and grinding (with all or little clothing on). If you can get to that point, odds are excellent that you will close the deal (unless she's got her period).

If you aren't getting to that point, then that is where we need more details.
 
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