I really need some advice here. Theres this girl that im completely tied over. I cant stop thinking about her, I always want to be with her, every song I hear I think of her (heh weird eh) and I cant seem to stop doing it. Fact is I dont think she likes me, and because of that I want to keep going after it. This is really the first girl ive like that hasnt liked me back, and its really pissing me off and I have no idea what to do. Fellow DJ's, help me please.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Getting over oneitis...
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Paid Laid & Made
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Okay, you never dated this chick, its a crush? I suggest checking if she likes you and if not, find another girl that does and work on her. Its kinda creepy being hung up on a girl that you never had anything with.
well see we always hang out. shes always flirting with me and tempting me, but when I asked her if she liked me, she told me the first time she met me she didnt like me at all, but then she said that she getting used to being around me and is starting to like me more. I just need to get over her, but no matter what I do, its not working.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
Starting to like you? She sounds pretty freaking honest. I would not go clingy on her. Yeah, seriously get over her and check out some other girls.
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StudMeister
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Yeah seriously, nothing more. She wants you to be the emotional tampon, not the cooch pleaser.
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I hate oneits. Get over it plz, Its not easy, stop thinking about her. You'll get depressed and wsste ur precious time. You'll look back and be like "**** yo, i wasted so much time thinkingabout this dumb ho,and lsitenign to sad songs like blurry and thinking about her, when I coulda been doin so many other things"
You ASKED her whether or not she liked you, then took her response at face value? Newsflash: 99% of girls when asked this question will either (a) lie or (b) not know themselves well enough to give an accurate answer. So for the future, don't place so much stock in this.
Sounds like you're her cheap entertainment. Whenever she's bored, she can go mess with your mind and get a nice little ego-fix when you give her attention. A challenge is always attractive, so you've been sucked in.
The solution is to cut all contact with her, and go find a girl that actually likes you. Nothing cures obsession faster than a new (ideally healthier) obsession.
Sounds like you're her cheap entertainment. Whenever she's bored, she can go mess with your mind and get a nice little ego-fix when you give her attention. A challenge is always attractive, so you've been sucked in.
The solution is to cut all contact with her, and go find a girl that actually likes you. Nothing cures obsession faster than a new (ideally healthier) obsession.