Its been 3 months since I left my oneitis, I left the country, and took the cowards way out rather than staying indefinitely, I need to return to that country soon for a while for work purposes. How do I get over this girl I was in love with who humiliated me and made me look like a fool before I left? She was the only girl who my goal wasn't to sleep with, I'd only want to sleep with her now to get her back but really that's not what I want, I wish I never acted afc and got into the position I'm in now so that I could somehow reconcile but I won't cos she disrespected me too much. I've tried getting other girls here now but I keep failing since the events with her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
getting over oneitis after 3 months
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