Getting over my approach anxiety!

[skinnyguy]

Get this guys. I approached a HB 9 white girl with a suuuuuuper fit body at my yoga class today. She was actually pretty friendly and didn't give attitude. Did not number close but she's there all the time.

I think that the approaching thing is really a mind game. I told myself she is just some average girl and convinced myself to do it. Normally with a really hot babe my heart rate would have spiked but since I had just done sweaty yoga I was relaxed.

What I still need work on is approaching HB 8+. Never had a problem approaching average looking women cause I don't care what they think. If I can keep telling myself the hot ones aren't going to flat out reject me, I'll be ok.

What are you guys planning for the weekend?

 

[The411]

Get this guys. I approached a HB 9 white girl with a suuuuuuper fit body at my yoga class today. She was actually pretty friendly and didn't give attitude. Did not number close but she's there all the time.

I think that the approaching thing is really a mind game. I told myself she is just some average girl and convinced myself to do it. Normally with a really hot babe my heart rate would have spiked but since I had just done sweaty yoga I was relaxed.

What I still need work on is approaching HB 8+. Never had a problem approaching average looking women cause I don't care what they think. If I can keep telling myself the hot ones aren't going to flat out reject me, I'll be ok.

What are you guys planning for the weekend?

Holy sht Batman!

You mean to actually tell me these 8,9, and 10's aren't these scary mythical creatures who are simply out to get everyone of us lowly, subhuman Don Juans and could possibly "reject" us and maybe even WORSE....ACCEPT us? Wouldn't THAT be a challenge to live up to! The REALITY of these creatures actually ACCEPTING one of us! :nervous:

They should be seen as people and not a validation object to "love" and despise at the same time?? It can't be! :flowers: :cuss:

They are actually HUMAN just like us and NO better? Sh1t!

 

[skinnyguy]

I have always thought they can be very nice people.... To good looking guys. In fact I have seen HB 9s throw themselves at guys they didn't know. But I'm not good looking not am I white so I expected them to be attitude filled. I guess I'm getting better at socializing.