Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting OUTCASTED!

trojanman88

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It started a while ago in class. I sat down where I always sit and this female from my class sits down beside me. And she made a joke about her not wanting to sit next to me to the other girls in the class. Then she said a joke to the teacher right in front of me ( I wasn't suppose to hear the jokes) and then the teacher tried to get me to move b saying stuff like " you should move over here" I was like for what. But yeah so ever since then they been kinda outkasting me for no reason. i had never spoken to the girl. I think its funny that I'm one of the only black people at my school and I'm getting outkasted for no apparent reason. SO like I can barely hold my temper in that class cuz like people dont sit by me no more and i'm kinda lonely. Like I cant really talk in that class cuz she is like the leader of all the chickx and all the chix litterally rule that ****ing class. In my other classes I kinda have a hold over what goes on but in that one she is the one. I don't think that its good to have a certain class that you are a loser in and another that you are a winner in. I think you should win all of the time cuz losing (getting rejected by chicks) is like a virus that spreads really ****ing fast. But like I anyway today I didnt go to sleep last night so I was specially untalkative. And I'm sitting way in the corner of the class and this ***** keeps on ****ing looking at me for no reason. And like I dosed off once so she tells the girl next to her to watch as I do that **** which pissed me off cuz why the hell is she watching me so ****ing close anyway to ****ing catch me dose off for likee 3 seconds. And i'm not even in her line of sight I could see her litterally turn and look at me every 3 minutes before I even dosed off the first time. But yeah I really get pissed when people try to make fun of me for no ****in reason. I was nice to all these ****ing people. I was funny but she just had to outkast me anyway. F UCKIN B ITCH
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man eff her !!!! you should really piss her off by sitting in the middle of her circle and do this every time you have the class with her. I Being outcasted it sucks start your own crew in that class and just dish it back to her.
 

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buddy, i sorry but it sounds like you're a victim of racism, albeit indirect.

sad world we live in. its MINDLESS so dont reck your head trying to rationalise the unrational


your best bet is just to keep being yourself, and maybe show them your real personality (personally im not sure if they're even worth it).
 
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