Getting old cant take it to the next level anymore.

[goundra]

I see a LOT of problems. I dont want such women, and I am OLD. The longer she's been around, the more likely she is spoiled rotten, diseased, and sour on men, kids and grandkids hanging all over her, etc,etc. Not me, man, not ever. Give me young, beautiful Asians or Latinas, or or you can keep them all.

 

[020204]

A lot of what the cougar thing is about is trying to be on a level with what men have always done. Not saying it is a myth, it is almost a way for modern women to convey value and show off her newly one status. Its like look at me I've still got it. I don't begrudge women doing that if they are still hot and in shape, to be honest super young men for an older women, would realistically be less beneficial to them than visa versa, younger female older male. It is very often simply attention whoring.

 

[evan12]

The comment you responded to in a silly way was a silly comment as well.

respectful man answer in respectful way

 

[timmylivingalie]

A lot of what the cougar thing is about is trying to be on a level with what men have always done. Not saying it is a myth, it is almost a way for modern women to convey value and show off her newly one status. Its like look at me I've still got it. I don't begrudge women doing that if they are still hot and in shape, to be honest super young men for an older women, would realistically be less beneficial to them than visa versa, younger female older male. It is very often simply attention whoring.

I wasted my youth with cougars. Now I am attracted to chicks 18 to 25.

 

[020204]

I did a little as well, they have the effect of leaving you a little jaded as they have a certain amount of toxicity.

 

[Stagger Lee]

I appreciate the input, but I'm still very skeptical of this one.

Send those 45 yo guys into a club to meet girls and see how they do relative to the young 18+ guys.

Yeah I'm not buying it either. Being more than 10-15 years older than the girl is a deal breaker alone for most women under 30, let alone the ones that are 18-23 years old. That's true at bars, online and anywhere else you could meet a girl. They could be attracted to you but when you tell them your age, and around here they always ask noticing you are older, they write you off. It's not biologically based for women to not be into older men but it certainly is socially and culturally, and of course I disagree with it.

About the only verifiable time I see a guy mid to late 30's and older with an attractive 21 year old is if he's very good looking and looks younger and well off if not rich and famous.

There's no advantage in itself to being older in attracting younger girls. That's just denying that US society and women is ageist. It's akin to denying feminism has an effect on dating. US society is completely twisted today. An average 45 year old woman could easily attract more 18-25 year male sex partners than most 45 year old males could attract women period.

 

[020204]

If you dress well and are in shape and the situatuation doesn't involve gaming an entire group, which seems to happen in clubs, it probably isn't an issue, end of the day you have to have really strong innergame. The Cougar has been largely a manifestation of feminism.