DJinTraining06
Master Don Juan
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This isn't about girls, so dont aswer if u aint interested, but im kinda bummed lately. I recently started a new job, and i got cool with a couple of the guys there who are also just starting there. Lately, like all of a sudden it seems, they just dont respect me anymore and i cant figure out why. Theyve been crackin on me for stuff that nobody else would get cracked on for. The slightest thing i say that might be wrong, or not well thought out and they crack on me for it, make me look stupid, and say ohh im just messin with ya. But i know the difference between 2 friends cracking on each other, and 1 guy messing with another guy. We used to crack on each other. We had been for weeks. Now it just became 1 sided. this one guy in particular crossed a line in my opninon, and if i let him know he just says im just messing with u man in a consdescing way. so i cant win. it seems to just egg him on more.
I dont know why all of a sudden this happened, this seems to happen alot with me. They were equals like a week ago and we had similar senses of humor and used to shoot the sh*t and joke around about everything. Now its like soembody turned a switch on and all at once they lost respect for me. I mean they r the same age, same position, i dont accept being f'd with like they're my older brother. I wouldnt mind if this was an isolated incident, but this always seems to happen to me. It's almsot as if they just think im a nerd and i am trying hard to be their friends. Which i totally am not, i have the same indifference any other average guy does about making friends. Sure new friends r cool, but i dont try hard to make them, i already have my own friends,gf and life of my own. Why do i always give this impression to people?
I can never understand it. I can never pinpoint what is about me that causes this. I hate sayin it cuz its a copout but i think its my height and boyish face. I'm barely 5'6'', and i have a round boyish face. People always and i emphasize always mistake me for being in high school and im 25! i have analyzed myself for yrs. its gotten to the point that i stop carin bout peoples cracks and just hold my head up high, live my life right, and be myself, and I still get this lack of respect. It has to be how i look and my short stature. what else can it be? Constantly analyzing your onw behavior is tiring, and i just wanna relax and still be cool wit people.
This is a seriosu post, if u can tell me what i might be missing, id appreciate it. I really wonder soemtimes, is a nerd really a nerd? Or does he have no choice? Does the fat kid with naturally slow metabolism and ugly face have a choice? Does the kid with huge ears, big nose, and thick glasses have a choice? Sure they can say screw it and act confident and not care wat anybody says. But 9 time sout of 10, guys will crack on them before they even hear them speak, just based on how they look. It doesn matter wat they say.
I dont know why all of a sudden this happened, this seems to happen alot with me. They were equals like a week ago and we had similar senses of humor and used to shoot the sh*t and joke around about everything. Now its like soembody turned a switch on and all at once they lost respect for me. I mean they r the same age, same position, i dont accept being f'd with like they're my older brother. I wouldnt mind if this was an isolated incident, but this always seems to happen to me. It's almsot as if they just think im a nerd and i am trying hard to be their friends. Which i totally am not, i have the same indifference any other average guy does about making friends. Sure new friends r cool, but i dont try hard to make them, i already have my own friends,gf and life of my own. Why do i always give this impression to people?
I can never understand it. I can never pinpoint what is about me that causes this. I hate sayin it cuz its a copout but i think its my height and boyish face. I'm barely 5'6'', and i have a round boyish face. People always and i emphasize always mistake me for being in high school and im 25! i have analyzed myself for yrs. its gotten to the point that i stop carin bout peoples cracks and just hold my head up high, live my life right, and be myself, and I still get this lack of respect. It has to be how i look and my short stature. what else can it be? Constantly analyzing your onw behavior is tiring, and i just wanna relax and still be cool wit people.
This is a seriosu post, if u can tell me what i might be missing, id appreciate it. I really wonder soemtimes, is a nerd really a nerd? Or does he have no choice? Does the fat kid with naturally slow metabolism and ugly face have a choice? Does the kid with huge ears, big nose, and thick glasses have a choice? Sure they can say screw it and act confident and not care wat anybody says. But 9 time sout of 10, guys will crack on them before they even hear them speak, just based on how they look. It doesn matter wat they say.