"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting Multiple Women

WORKEROUTER

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One thing my dad told me was to always have a handful of women, so that when one goes bad, you can just call up the next one.

And this absolutely right. After breaking up with my gf on Wednesday, I am at ground zero in terms of dating (meaning starting over). Where as just last Friday, I am going out to the city w/ my girl and then f*cking her that night, now I'm chilling tonight just reading and watching TV. And where is my ex-gf now? Probably flirting and getting ready to bend over and get f*cked by some other prick.

But the point is that if I had not confined myself to just her, I would not be chilling w/out a girl right now. For girls, it really is a lot easier. Guys will flock to them like flies on sh*t if they are good looking. And like I said, after breaking up w/ my gf, it was only no more that six f*cking hours until she is hanging out with another guy.

And so from now on, I WILL consistently aim for having multiple women on my number list.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Glad another person has learned this. And never by any means go and feel guilty for it. Women are more scandelous than men, just quieter about it.

Personally I have had up to 5 going at a time. Meaning that I either was banging them or getting something from them at least once every two weeks.

I have found that a good number is 3. Concentrate on one (the theoretical gf), have a fxck buddy (when the tgf is acting up or out of town), and have the one you are trying to make into either a tgf or fxck buddy. Works out well. Might make it a Tip in itself
 

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Originally posted by The Bartender
Glad another person has learned this. And never by any means go and feel guilty for it. Women are more scandelous than men, just quieter about it.

Personally I have had up to 5 going at a time. Meaning that I either was banging them or getting something from them at least once every two weeks.

I have found that a good number is 3. Concentrate on one (the theoretical gf), have a fxck buddy (when the tgf is acting up or out of town), and have the one you are trying to make into either a tgf or fxck buddy. Works out well. Might make it a Tip in itself
Yeah, that's excellent.
 

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Also to add to my 3 chick rotation tip: If you find that ALL three are busy on any night of the week...1). You should have known the tgf was going to be busy through earlier communications. So proceed early enough to find out what the other two are doing. 2). If you fxck buddy is busy when you call for ass...get a new fxck buddy because she is to be at your beconing call no matter what. 3). If your final chick is busy, which she probably will be because you are attempting at a half-assed pace to move her up the ranks, just mention to her that you two need to hang out soon. STEP 4). Get off your ass and go get a fourth chick to replace one of them either short or long term. Go to a party, meet chicks, feel good about yourself, if you dont go home with anyone, make a final effort to get either #1 or #2 home with you. Dont call #3 for a boot call. That'll ruin it.
 

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WORKEROUTER - Your dad is right. We should all avoid that one-itis like the plague! It's really not good for a man to be wrapped on one chick. I mean honestly the odds are really against an LTR actually succeeding and every DJ with at least an ounce of experience knows - females got game! Believe me 9.5 times of 10 a female has back up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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